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... regarding the last few weeks

I've had a lot going on in the past few weeks. I fell ill with Corona for the fourth time at the beginning of December and have had major health problems again since then, which have made it almost impossible for me to work the many hours at the computer. 

In general, my health is extremely critical after contracting a virus last September - I was in hospital and had severe pain in my arms and legs for weeks, among other things, and it remains unclear what this was and is due to.

On top of all that, we recently had a death in the family.

And despite everything, I have released a set every month, even if the work has demanded a lot from me at times.  

At the moment I'm visiting my parents and although I would love to spend time with my family, I spend most of the day sitting in front of the computer instead of baking cookies with my nephews, who I hardly ever see cuz we live so far away from each other. Because, like every month, another set is due to be released at the beginning of January. 

Tonight I also sat at the PC until midnight to create a little Christmas surprise for you, which I will upload to CurseForge. 

With this in mind it makes me so incredibly sad to read all those nasty comments on my site. 

I'm not made of stone, nor am I a robot. I'm really not feeling well at the moment and to top it all off, I have to be insulted here. 

Please take your hate elsewhere right now and if $5 for a set is too much for you, you don't have to buy it. There is a lot of free content out there and I'm sure you can find my sets on sites where you don't have to pay anything as well. 

I'll be able to devote more time to SIMS updates when I'm mentally stable and healthy again. 

Until then, I would like to ask for a little humanity in a virtual world πŸ’š



 

... regarding the last few weeks

Comments

Just joined the Bengal club for now. Hope you are feeling better. I know being sick sucks.

Jamie Hebert

No one owes you anything just because other creators do things differently. And you are so wrong about the rules. EA states that content has to be released within a reasonable amount of time (https://help.ea.com/en/help/the-sims/the-sims-4/mods-and-the-sims-4-game-updates/#policy), and that's solely at the discretion of the creator. EA didn't state a specified amount of time because they don't have one set. If you don't know what you're talking about, you shouldn't make hurtful statements. You have no idea how much time and effort goes into the creation of the content. You don't know how much of the monthly fees go towards Patreon's cut or taxes. You're just out here telling people that it's not fair that you can't get stuff for free faster and that their income is "enough." If you can't wait a month for content to be released, go somewhere else or make your own. FFS, the amount of entitlement in your post is ridiculous. I hope you read this and apologize to ClutterCat for being ignorant of the policy.

MsNom

Since you are one of my longest patreons, this means a great deal to me. Thank you for supporting my work for all this time and always having a kind word for me. I'm wishing you a wonderful year 2024 and sending much love πŸ’—

The Clutter Cat

I slowly do πŸ₯° Thank you so much for caring.

The Clutter Cat

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me and remaining fairly objective. I wasn't really on my side at the beginning of the month - you can see the reasons in the text above. When I went back on Patreon and read the comments from you and others, I was very upset and wrote this post to explain my situation and provide the transparency you are asking for. And it's not about not being allowed to ask questions. But the way people communicate in some cases is simply not right. There's always the option of a personal message as well - but to attack creatives as an angry mob is pretty out of line and I no longer accept this behavior on my site. I have already uploaded 23 free projects with over 500 objects to CurseForge and I publish one more free set every month. Each of these objects costs you nothing, but they cost me time. Several hours or even days per object. You can do the math and see how much time that means taken together. I'm happy to do it, but if I don't manage to upload something right at the beginning of the month, there's no need to be abusive, spread lies and act as if I'm the worst person who only wants to do you harm. I don't think I'm the person behaving selfishly in this context.

The Clutter Cat

Hannita

i just found your page and was shocked to read some of the things people were saying to you under your posts :( i hope you start to feel better soon, take care of yourself <3

levvy

I'm sorry for what you went through. Dealing with a death and having covid can be tolling both mentally and physically to the body and oneself. As someone who had made a comment regarding release of CC you decided to block me. Instead of being a little transparent with your followers on your struggles or updating on anything regarding making CC public you left us guessing which did result in many people being upset. Understand my comment was not coming from hate but EA did have to get involved early this year regarding paywalls and CC releases. Was it wrong of me to say something of the matter when you as the creator are using EA tools and programs to make CC? I was grateful to have your mods in my game but your response tells me its easy for you to block and forget rather than give US the followers/patreons due respect to at least communicate to us, I feel if that had happen you wouldn't have to release this statement. Again I am sorry for what you have gone through Hope you have the heart to unblock those who didn't mean to really hurt you.

Hay

I'm so sorry you had to go through such terrible things and on top of that having to see those terrible comments when you obviously work very hard. I've been subscribed to your patreon for a while now and I've never found anything bad to say, be it about the way you communicate or the sets themselves. Thank you so so much for all of the incredible creations you gifted us, I hope you can rest for a little while and enjoy your holidays. Sending love <3

Flibus Tier

PS: I just discovered you a couple months ago and you are one of my favorite creators! Thank you for all your time and dedication!

MsNom

oh hon, sending happy, healing, and loving energy your way. Remember that you don't owe anyone a damn thing that you aren't willing to give. Unfortunately, in today's times, people feel overly entitled to everything and anything via the internet and the ability to get anything nearly instantly if not in just a day or two. Your health is everything and it should be your top priority, always. I am living with severe fibromyalgia the last 12 years and I 150% attest that fact. If you aren't feeling up to creating due to your health, then pause billing for a month. If you create during that time, fantastic and if not you can just add some extra content the next month. Take the pressure off yourself. Your content absolutely is worth the amount you charge and as a single older woman on disability and a very, very fixed income I am happy to donate to what I can so you can keep creating your fantastic content. P.S Ignore the haters, responding to them only feeds them. Delete the posts that disturb YOUR community. Refund and block the ones that make them. This is your space, not theirs :)

Larke Lockhart

Thank you Marisa πŸ¦„πŸ’—πŸŒˆ

The Clutter Cat

I do and thank you so much πŸ˜˜πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—

The Clutter Cat

Thank you so much Kemi ❣️

The Clutter Cat

Thank you Emily πŸ’— All of those are such talented & magnificent creators and I am a big fan of their work.

The Clutter Cat

cheers to that !! to an awesome 2024 πŸ’— and thank you so much

The Clutter Cat

⭐️ Thank you so much and happy holidays to you as well

The Clutter Cat

Yes they can 🀨 But all the best for you as well !! much love

The Clutter Cat

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ₯° The cookies were great and so are you !! Thank you so much Katie

The Clutter Cat

Tell them girl !! And why is it assumed that I do this because I have bad intentions and want to annoy people. Why would I do that? Anyway - I hope you had and are having a great holiday season and a happy new year κ’°βŒ―β€’Ι·β€’βŒ―κ’±ΰΈ…πŸ’š

The Clutter Cat

Your comment touched me so deeply - thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts and expressing them in such a beautiful way. Working online is still quite foreign to me and sharing my thoughts online is still difficult. Under the guise of anonymity, many people tend to attack below the belt and say things they would never say to your face. I'm pretty sure of that. Anyone who goes online makes themselves vulnerable - but I'm no longer prepared to accept these attacks without comment. And it means an unbelievable amount to me that people like you have my back. Someone I don't know personally, but who feel empathy and still have something like decency and dignity. 1000 thanks for that 😘

The Clutter Cat

Thank you very much for this πŸŒΈπŸ’—πŸŒΈ

The Clutter Cat

I also don't understand what this public attack is supposed to achieve. But I'm no longer even trying to understand what's going on in these people's minds. Thank you so much for your support - how incredibly sweet of you - the name is fitting 😘

The Clutter Cat

thank you so much πŸ’Ÿ

The Clutter Cat

Your words are so true - our health really is invaluable and often we only realize what an unspeakable gift it is when we fall ill. The last few weeks and months have not only taken their toll on me physically, but also mentally. I'm actually used to starting the day with full on energy. I hope it will be like this again soon and send you my best wishes. The work you do is so valuable for society and often not appreciated enough as well ❀️

The Clutter Cat

Thank you for appreciating my work - that means a lot to me 🌼

The Clutter Cat

Thank you Emelia !! That's very kind of you πŸ±πŸ’—πŸŒΈ

The Clutter Cat

I don't really share my innermost thoughts online. But answers like yours make me happy that I did. Thank you πŸ’š

The Clutter Cat

Thank you so much Lauren β­οΈπŸ‘ΌπŸ»β­οΈ

The Clutter Cat

πŸ˜„ Sometimes you get the impression that for some people it is. And I'm the evil supervillain who's here to tyrannize the poor innocent people. Joking aside - many thanks and best regards 🌸

The Clutter Cat

Aw what kind of you to say, Thank you as well for taking the time replying still, I hope the new year will be an amazing year for us all! ^w^

Melissa Hennekes

Thank you so much 😘 May I really appreciate that !!

The Clutter Cat

That means so much to me and I am thrilled that my creations are an enrichment for you and your gameplay β­οΈπŸŽ€β­οΈ much love

The Clutter Cat

πŸ’–πŸ±πŸ’–

The Clutter Cat

The same goes out to you ❣️ I hope you had some lovely days and much more to come in 2024

The Clutter Cat

Thank you Shirley κ’°βŒ―β€’Ι·β€’βŒ―κ’±ΰΈ…πŸ’š

The Clutter Cat

Thank you so much for taking the time to reach out and share your thoughts with so much compassion. You are totally right - I think people generally underestimate the negative impact of hateful comments they share in the net. At least they do impact my physical and mental health and that can really become an issue. All my best wishes and much love to you and your family πŸ₯°

The Clutter Cat

That's so sweet of you! Thank you so much κ’° οΈ ΰ₯β€’ΰ―°β€’κ’±ΰ₯β™‘πŸ’š It's also lovely that you appreciate the good quality of my work. That makes me very happy - cuz I really put a lot of effort into everything I create.

The Clutter Cat

Thank you so much TNGuy 😘

The Clutter Cat

Yes, it wasn't easy for me either, because I'm actually the kind of person who doesn't need to make a fuss about her problems. But I couldn't see any other way ... You also have to protect yourself πŸ˜‘ Thank you for your understanding and your kind words - it's nice to have a fellow designer in my community πŸ˜ΊπŸ’—

The Clutter Cat

Just try and remember that there will always be haters. Unfortunately, we can’t please everyone, BUT hopefully the love and support outweigh the negativity and hate. You are so talented and it’s a pleasure of mine to pay for your hard work. Sending you love into the new year!!! 🫢🏽

Vanessa Rose

I'm not so sure it's not simply because some people can't get enough. And if they don't get what they want straight away, they become rude. But what do I know - I thank you in any case and send you a big hug.

The Clutter Cat

That's really sweet of you! Thank you very much and all the best for you β™‘( βˆ©Λ‡Ο‰Λ‡βˆ©)♑。

The Clutter Cat

I don't think many people understand how much work is actually behind all this. Maybe that's also expecting too much ... but a little respect is probably not too much to ask for πŸ˜’ Sending lots of love your way πŸ’š

The Clutter Cat

I am wishing you lots of love and great New Year 😘 Thank you so much !!

The Clutter Cat

I also hope that you are doing well and enjoy your holidays πŸ₯°

The Clutter Cat

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. I think it's a bit presumptuous to say that I deliberately ignore comments - I reply to most comments via DM, which you don't even see. I reserve the right to use my own judgment about who I want to interact with and I don't respond when people insult me or talk to me in a way that I don't think is okay. . I ask for your understanding that there are unforeseeable factors in life that do not always make it possible to keep to plans. But I hope you will trust me to do my work here to the best of my ability. I think it's going too far to explain every step and why this or that step is more time-consuming and I therefore don't have the time or energy for it right now. I agree with you - communication is important and I will try to work on it. Sharing my current state was a first step in this direction...

The Clutter Cat

You're very welcome and I hope you enjoyed your Christmas ❀️.

Stacy Rainwater

Thank you and same to you ❣️❣️❣️

The Clutter Cat

That is really true. I just don't understand how anyone can be so heartless ... It is difficult to overcome the negativity but I try my best. Thx for sharing your thoughts β™‘πŸ’š

The Clutter Cat

Thank you rin!! It's good to hear that πŸ’— I'm not really well at the moment, but I'm working on it and hope to be back on track soon.

The Clutter Cat

My love - thank you so much for all your support 🌷

The Clutter Cat

Thank you Hedy - I am wishing you all the best as well ❣️

The Clutter Cat

Thank you Rose. I really feel the same πŸ₯Ί It worries me greatly to see how people treat each other.

The Clutter Cat

Well you even find them underneath this post & even if the haters have given up for a day or two, it's back to business as usual. But thank YOU for sharing your thoughts. Much πŸ’š

The Clutter Cat

Thank you Maddie - this love is really needed at the moment ♑。

The Clutter Cat

Thank you Elodie, I took one day of at the 25th and it felt great πŸ’š

The Clutter Cat

What are you even talking about?? PLEASE STOP MAKING WRONG ALLEGATIONS. And this under this post... How ignorant can one actually be.

The Clutter Cat

Everyone piling on must really suck but I encourage you to work on communication in 2024. It is incredibly frustrating how often you are clearly ignoring comments and requests for cc that are paywalled for even longer than YOU promise them! Everyone would be a lot more understanding if you would tell people you need more time to upload something to Curseforge, especially if you're updating other platforms anyways. It costs nothing to be kind, but it's also free to communicate!

pochitastan

refund people's money atleast, those who pay for your contents but still haven't got any access to it :)

Amalia Ramadhanita

I'm so sad and sorry to hear of your ill health and that you've had so little time to spend with your family. How disappointing. Everything you create is beautiful and it's truly a shame that there is so much nastiness and lack of appreciation for you doing essentially, an unpaid job. I for one, use your content in almost all my builds. The quality, style and range is beautiful and stands up there with Felix, Harrie, Pierick and Tuds. You're one of the best. Thank you for your ingenuity and creativity. You enhance our hobby tremendously. <3

Emily Mitchell

Take your time and get better first! We will still be here for you...YOU DO YOU and not worry about putting stuff out. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! May 2024 be better for all of us!

Kendall

People can suck, but know there are a lot of good folks out in the world who wish you nothing but the best. 🫢

MsNom

we just want you to be safe, happy, and healthy!! we appreciate the work you do and the content you release. thank you so much for being you! happy holidays :))

Gaster Sins

girl those cookies need you and we all need you to be healthy and happy the screwg's can go grouch off to there pillow's all of your content is amazing and you are amazing just go have a good holiday ok were not going any where so we will see you next year

Katie Mueller

I'm new to the patron platform and there are many artists like yourself that have been attacked for creating a little joy for simmers like myself......I have found alot of the Sims community to be nasty and hate filled and distrustful towards each other which is such a shame! People keep your nasty comments to yourself.....noone wants to hear them...life is hard enough without people being harassed on social creative media platforms. As clutter cat says she spends many hard hours a day trying to brighten people's lives and of course why shouldn't they be paid for the work....if it offends you go somewhere else. Have a merry Christmas to all those people out there that know how to be socially acceptable!

Rachael Gab

I rarely ever interact on any social platform, in fact this is my first comment ever on Patreon. I prefer to remain anonymous. But I read this and NEEDED to respond. First, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, for your health woes and for the fact that you have still felt obligated to produce more of the amazing content you have been giving us because we are plagued with far more selfish people than we are kind and empathetic. The fact that you still kept creating and feeling the need to create during all of this is absolutely admirable, but you had no obligation to. I cant express how sorry I am that there are so many selfish, negative, unappreciative people out there. Are you a creator employed by the Sims team? No. So why the hell do people think they should demand anything of you when you are doing this for us as a community out of the kindness of your heart and to showcase your amazing talent. Your content is a privilege. And yes, you may charge some money, but I know I could never create the things you do, especially the quality, so I feel you absolutely deserve contributions given it comes from your free time. As someone who takes things people say too much to heart, I feel immensely for you. Please, first and foremost take care of yourself and be with your family in the limited time you have. This privilege you provide to so many of us should always come second, and sorry to any of the selfish people who read this and disagree, but I'm almost certain they won't take the time to read something this long because they are too busy being terrible, inconsiderate people to read something that might challenge their ideas of how they think you should be spending your time. Again, at least from this fan, I appreciate you and I am happy to contribute my money to you even if you have to pause releasing content for a brief time. Much love from a total stranger who hopes nothing but the best for you and will keep you and your family in my thoughts. Now get better and go bake some cookies with those nephews!

Katie Roberts

People suck. I know it’s easy to say and hard to do, but don’t let the hate get you down and please focus on your health and loved ones. Your supporters will keep.

Kemi Lynn

That really sucks. :( Spend time with your nephews and family - they are way more important than a game. Please know that most of us out here are extremely grateful for the CC that you make and share. <3

Marisa (gfvsims)

So sorry you have to go through that, and still deal with ungrateful nasty people. You are so talented and so kind to share your beautiful creations - you are tremendously appreciated. Look after yourself and enjoy your family.

Alida Ryan

Lots and lots of love coming your way! Sorry for the haters that ruin so many things for so many people! We all LOVE your stuff and 5$ is nothing to have your beautiful content!

PurpleCallaLily

your amazing,remeber there are people who love u

Celina Jones

Sending a lot of love and support your way! Please take time to heal, the sims doesn't matter when your health is at risk! Also I've been seeing those nasty comments and those people should be ashamed of themselves, its just CC for a game its not something they are entitled to! I hope they grow and learn some kindness! Please take time to enjoy the holidays and relax with your family πŸ’• Also i'm getting a sub to you to show some extra support during this time!❀️

Unicorns & Cake

I'm not surprised but once again saddened to hear that yet again humanity is less than human. It hurts my heart to hear that people feel the need to attack you. You are very talented, and we are fortunate to be able to add your creations to bring our game to another level. Please rest and try to ignore the hate. I pity people who are so filled with negativity that they need to attack others to feel good. Many blessings to you and your family and I hope you feel better quickly. I have been a nurse for 25 years and have seen people at their lowest and I know that health is the most valuable commodity we have, guard it above anything. Feel better and have a blessed holiday.

trish mcgrath

Please take the time to enjoy your family and recover. The comments are just people taking your art for granted, the rest of us can wait. Your art is worth it. xx

kalimadz

Reminder to put yourself first. Please take time to get better and heal from your recent loss. We will all be here when you return if you decide to take a much deserved break.

Emelia

I don’t usually respond to anything online but this really touched me. I am so sorry that folks have sent you hate during this challenging time in ur life. Prioritize ur peace and ur health love!! Sending you healing vibes!

Trae Harris

I am so very sorry to hear how awful people have been to you. For what it is worth, I think your work is phenomenal. I am very grateful for the amazing work that you have given us. Thank you again. I am so sorry for your loss and I hope you feel better soon.

Lauren Krewson

I love your sets and you are so generous to create what you do. No one is entitled to your work. Please take time for your health, your family, and to prioritize the important things. And while Sims is important to a lot of us, it is not the center of the universe. Take care!!!!

Grace DeLallo

Your work is always beautiful and appreciated so much, don't let anyone tell you differently. People who think differently are just jealous of your creative talent. If you ever need time off just say, so that we don't worry you have disappeared, and as I am sure many others who have commented we will understand. Your health and mental wellbeing come first. Lots of love. I hope you get well soon.

May Ellis

Please take the time that you need. You will have my continued support, not for churning out packs every month but for the richness you bring to the game. You are a creative person and we shouldn't expect a machine.

KPB

If you ever need to take a break for health reasons, pls do not hesitate! Your health comes first.

E HH

So sorry to hear this. It’s been such a pleasure being able to enjoy your content and I hate that others have been so nasty to you. Wishing you a speedy recovery and a happy holiday season with your family.

Amanda Wright

I am sorry you are dealing with this. Sending you and your family best wishes.

Shirley Keeton

Girl, if I were you at this point i'd go on hiatus for the moment. Your health is WAY MORE IMPORTANT than those nasty people only thinking about themselves. I read some of these comments as well and they are unbelievable. You don't have time to read those negative comments because they impact your health as well. You are a great person and did way to much already being so dedicated to make these things and releasing sets. Remember you are the most important being right now and you should focus on that only. If you want to make stuffz still then do it by all means. But don't let those nasty people talk to you like that, you deserve way better. I'm sorry for the loss of your family member. Never a great timing to deal with. I wish you the best with that and all the love for yourself as well :> Don't worry about the sims community the true people that care are going to wait paciently and wait for you until you're fully recovered. Again wish you the best from us all! <3

Melissa Hennekes

It makes me so sad to hear that people are being so mean on top of you going through so much already! You don't deserve that at all! You're not obligated to put out anything for anyone and yet you continue to show up every month with new, top quality content and people have the nerve to complain about waiting a little bit for it to be public access... Smh! Don't push yourself to work especially if it's taking such a toll. Get some rest, take some time off, health and family are most important! You'll post some new stuff whenever you post it, and we will be here regardless of when that is! <3

Saeryal

Take care and sorry people are being so self-centered and self-serving. I love your work and wish you the best and hope for a speedy recovery for you.

TNGuy

Thanks for sharing something extremely personal we never know what's happening behind a screen. I hope you do take the time to just unwind and relax and fuck the trolls(easier said then done ik). Sims is supposed to be fun and a break away from reality so I hope you know if you ever need to just stop do it, the game will be here and so will the people who enjoy using your content in game. I hope you get better all around and decompress as a designer myself I know how hard it is to quit off your passion projects and I also can relate to the stress of doing the thing you love. I feel like i'm rambling now but I hope you get better x2. xoxo

tajahanae aiken

I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ll echo what someone else said - you kind of always get hate these days when you show a talent for something. It shouldn’t be that way, alas πŸ™„Please take all the time you need and get well. Spend some time with your family, cos they’re so much more important than us. Sending far away hugs πŸ«‚πŸ’œπŸ«‚

OnliestFaerie

Sending lots of love your way πŸ’–πŸ«‚πŸ’– please take care of yourself and your health, and know that we appreciate all you do! I hope you get well soon πŸ’

Lindzshell

Sending my love to you. This is ridiculous. People are cruel. Forgetting that there is another human behind the screen. You are not some robot that should have to constantly give out content because β€œthey say so”. I hope you feel better. You are amazing at what you do but your health is more important.

Carmen B

If you’re an incredible talent of something always come haters. I wish you could some rest and peace for the holidays and I hope you have an awesome new year! ❀️❀️

Arisa K

Sorry for the hate your getting, no one should being getting hate what so ever!! Some people are just nasty for no reason and really should self reflect on them selves. Wishing you happiness and a healthy future <3 love your content please take all the time you need hun

Starlyss

So very sad to read of your poor health and the loss of a beloved family member. Praying for healing for you. Merry Christmas to you and yours!

Sanny

People really suck sometimes. Please try to tune out the negativity. Definitely don't let it ruin your holidays. Some people just aren't happy unless they're making other people miserable or trying to at least.

Stacy Rainwater

im so sorry you’re going through all this at once :( your creations are truly amazing and i really hope you’re doing okay despite all of the unnecessary comments. get well soon and take your time to heal! we love you!

rin !!

Don't worry about anything, spend your holidays with family and take some rest! Love you! πŸ’›

Bojana Antonijevic

I pray you are well soon. I also wish to extend my condolences to you and your loved ones. Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a much happier and healthier New Year.

Hedy Heartsong

Oh my, first of all, I’m SO sorry for the hate you have received. You definitely do not deserve any of that and our world is losing empathy and compassion by the second. πŸ₯ΊSending you all of the good vibes and love. Take as much time as you need. 🫢🏽

Vanessa Rose

I am so sorry & appalled to hear that you’ve been receiving rude/hateful comments. Please prioritize your health and family time. I am more than happy to wait for any content you feel up to producing.

mariknickerbocker

Sending you and your family much love!! Please take time to focus on yourself and your health - that comes first always! Thank you for everything you doπŸ’—

Maddie Darveau

please take some rest and spend time with your family, it’s okay to take a break 🀍🀍 get better soon, we appreciate your work :)

Elodie


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