Patreon Exclusive: Female Fan wonders if men are being hypocritical?

That's dope. A girl I'm talking to also told me this. I think we'd all get along better if we understood more about our nature and each other's nature

You asked why women in LTR watch your videos. Im 30, married with 2 kids, so not your typical viewer. Two reasons I watch your channel, firstly in order to better understand my nature in a relationship. There are things women do that are kinda shitty and they arent even aware of them due to the highly feminist nature of our current society. Secondly, it better informs me on how to raise our children in this pro-feminist society without cutting down the boy or the girl.

No, no it does not. It just forces you into paying regardless of how the girl is (for example, if she was sweet or rude on the date). The girl (author of the letter) may "expect" the guy to pay, but by *offering* to split she empowers Him with choice to step up and say "No no, I got this". See, THAT is a sign of a smart woman: make a situation such that both get a satisfactory outcome.

Just off the head, I'm not sure if people can see it this way. Guys should pay all the time. This will force them to think very carefully if the woman he is seeing is worth his time, attention and money. It will in one way or another force the guy to think and not fool around with women without much potential with him.

Yep! In fact I have a video coming out in 6 hours that references her. We've spoken over email, she's great :)

Alexander Grace

Btw, Alex, just regarding your last point, have you checked out Mrs Midwest's channel? She's pretty good if you're chasing a very feminine perspective on anything..

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I do believe there's a growing level of entitlement amongst young women, but it's complex. As a rule, I always pay for dates, and I always take note of whether or not a girl says "thankyou" afterwards. One thing I've noticed is this: If there's a significant difference in age between you and the girl, she's more likely to say "thankyou" after you've paid. I put this down to being viewed as somewhat of an authority figure by the younger women. However, if the age difference isn't quite so large, or if they've come out of a bad relationship, the appreciation dries up. It's as if they feel entitled to free stuff because they feel they've earned it from putting up with shit from men in their past......

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