Introducing a new female guest, Yolanda :)

So true. Drama is rarely worth the cost

Alexander Grace

It's definitely another possibility, she found the behaviour distasteful because she didn't find him attractive and it wouldnt be a problem in other circumstances.

Alexander Grace

The reason I’d want to know if a potential sexual partner was sleeping with other people would be primarily twofold 1) safety reasons (I.e. how high is the STD risk here) and 2) drama reasons (I.e How high is the risk of potential crazy baby-mamma drama or psycho stalker chicks). Avoiding both in my life is important to me... of course, that’s also why I never slept around outside a committed relationship.

I disagree with both of you here. I think this may be another case of “unacceptable unethical creepy and disgusting behavior UNLESS he is hot”. Watch this for the context: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbeEuYAZFL4" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbeEuYAZFL4</a> You nailed it the other day describing the contradictions of some men in the MGTOW community: they tend to shame women who have sex often, but then they become bitter if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with them. It’s quite obvious they are just frustrated for not being chosen. Women have a similar cognitive dissonance. They see these attractive or rich men succeeding with multiple women despite their "dirty games" and they instantly become bitter. Why are the number of women this guy is sleeping with and the tactics he uses any relevant to them? As long as he doesn’t break any law, they have nothing to say about it. The reason why they are so bitter is that although they ¨hate¨ those men they still regard them as high-value men and they are bitter for not having access to a long-term relationship with them. There is a good reason behind that. From a biological perspective, women impulsively expect high-value men to stick around and take care of the child and their duties. Those impulses were valid hundreds of thousands of years and they are not going to disappear just cause we found a pill a few decades ago that prevents women from getting pregnant. It stays there and it shapes their beliefs and principles, aka the lies we tell ourselves to rationalize what we do.

Never an easy moment to ask someone's sexual orientation!

Alexander Grace

Ahh, Yolanda is lovely! More of her, please. Not related to this video, but a slightly funny story from this week: a while ago I mentioned that I was pursuing a girl who looks like Vampire Teeth Chick that you interviewed a while ago, minus the vampire teeth. Well, after a few weeks of chatting with her whenever I saw her, I finally plucked up the courage to get her number, texted back and forth for a few days, asked her out for a drink, and... she's gay. Back to the drawing board....

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