NSFW Patreon Exclusive: Don't Whisper During Sex

Look at her face - if she's smiling, then do anything you like. Don't listen to her words, look at her smile. If she objects to something, start doing it anyway and do a quick check - still smiling, keep going. If the smile stops, then stop that thing and jump on her and do something that you know she will smile about. Keep a very clear mental set of notes about smiling activities and non-smiling activies, and then go do whatever you want within those bounds.. Dragging a laughing female around by her ankles and doing whatever you want to her will be one of the most spectacular things you've ever seen, and for her too. Just don't screw this up and injure her..

100% agree! I would add, even prior to getting her into the bedroom, get her into that feminine mindset. When you're standing and kissing her playfull grab her butt and pull her into you. and If you're able to pick her up, Do it and throw or place her on the bed, the feminine nature in her will enjoy it.

Anthony S

It's a fascinating subject. :D

Hristo

Explain...?

Margaret

The concept of "you are the expert" is creeping into therapy too

Hristo

In general I'd say that a man whispering falls into 2 categories - creepy or insecure. Creepy because it affects the listener's comprehension and confidence in their own senses... Insecure/Unsure because it sounds like you're testing an idea out before sharing it confidently with your audience. And yes... when it comes to sex, whether with a new or established relationship... state what you want clearly! We've all picked up tips and suggestions from books, articles, movies, porn, etc, but when it comes to pleasing YOU, not some hypothetical person, YOU are the expert!

Margaret

Yeah... If the cold seller is selling rubber dolls, he better be whispering 😂

Hristo

in sales cold calling, that's the technique of whispering, because it immediately catch the listener attention, ''what..what did you say, can you repeat?'' esp when you wanted to talk about important details.

I remember that one time during sex my partner just grabbed my mouth spitting in it. It meant - "give to me, bad boy". You bet I did. However, I've made some silly mistake. I advice to not go ahead and bite your partner. Some women may enjoy slight bite on the nipples but is suggest to wait. Women have a subtle way of giving ques during sex as to were they want you to take them. Just pay attention and don't bite... 😂 😂 😂

Hristo

damn it‘s funny how your topics can be so timely for me!! I remember questioning myself very recently when I think I whispered something or was speaking very softly. It’s helpful you pointed this out.

Blair