A really really easy way to handle this one: Next time she mentions one of her orbiters say, “Wow. He looks like a great catch. You should go for it!”
I’ve done this to girlfriends completely and sincerely joking and without fail they are shocked, gasp, turn, smile, and slap me on the shoulder telling me “shut up!”. What I’ve done is I’ve joined her on her level in recognizing it must be annoying to have these orbiters... and clearly they are lower value men.
Works like a charm.
Nathan Mountford
2020-06-12 07:11:31 +0000 UTC
Unfortunately, I too have been guilty of doing the same to women. Without the interest of being in a relationship. This has been to me too. I don't do it anymore nor do I accept being done to me
Hristo
2020-03-08 13:10:18 +0000 UTC
Is it possible to have orbiters of the same sex?
John Tuccitto
2020-03-08 12:39:53 +0000 UTC
Great video, I’ve always wondered about this! Is also wonder if there’s any time your girl would be attracted to your aggression toward these guys.. like she’d feel protected/valued.