I agree with this. Also it seems to me that when someone asks what are you searching for, you might be compelled to answer in a way:
a) as your ideal self would do, or
b) as is somehow expected of you.
In the first option, you would want yourself to look for the intelligence in women, but bigger boobs are better. Similarly, women will say they want ambition, but go for great looks in reality. One of the reasons for this might be that when thinking about answer, people are in their rational, logical mind, and are thinking about a potential future partner. When deciding on a second date, they are directed by how the person makes them feel.
As for the option b), I believe that women are more aware of the social environment and don't want to come off as shallow, which might be why they would go for a well rounded man.
In addition, there is one more thing, which I find somewhat ironically funny. If you will go to a dating site, and read some of women's advertisements, they quite often describe themselves as "complicated", "complex" or "difficult to solve" person. It seems to me that women dwell in this "being complicated thing" as if it is a golden standard a woman should achieve. Also, a woman would probably be insulted if you called her simple and straightforward. Well, it turns out that they are not that difficult after all.:]
2020-03-24 08:01:27 +0000 UTC
The article stated that a test was made with a female’s account. When they searched for men only one couple showed up out of 50. When the same female account searched for women 5 couples showed up. Are women demanding more open relationships than men are?
2020-03-13 22:15:32 +0000 UTC
Do you have any info or research on what women look for when they want or decide to experiment with a couple? What about men? I skimmed through an article talking about people going on dates with couples they matched on tinder.
2020-03-13 22:06:13 +0000 UTC
I think this also shows the difference in factors between finding a partner and keeping a partner. Sincerity is probably not important at first, because flirting is really a type of pretending. But if someone is still being coy and hard to understand six months in, they would be quite frustrating and I would guess the relationship would crumble before much longer.
Ryan Stallard
2020-03-12 02:51:23 +0000 UTC
I'd like to know whether these graphs change as people age. In my 20s I was definitely most interested in a woman's attractiveness. Now that I'm in my 50s I'm much more interested in finding a woman who's emotionally mature.
DC
2020-03-10 01:08:37 +0000 UTC
With all their powers combine it just looks like a fancy way of saying confidence.