Why Women Don't Criticize Each Other PATREON EXCLUSIVE

Very good video

Jeffrey Blaise

Okay, yet another way I am apparently not at all like most women. But then what about gossip? Women do start vicious rumours about other women, based on nothing or wildly exaggerated. I think female solidarity is a modern artifact of feminist virtue signaling, & I find it quite sickening. Most people are also persistent liars - regardless of gender - which I find abominable. But it’s just how most people are.

RhodiumMaiden

Most people are NPCs with no inner monologue, so how can they have free will without independent thought?

RhodiumMaiden

I think the popular ideal that man was the first to cheat back in cave man times or hunter gatherer doesn't make much sense. Man couldn't just go to the village down the trail first I'm sure people were spread out second he would be murdered...I think it's more likely this sisterhood comes from man dying in the hunt or in battle...I think the cheating originated with woman. There are no girls while out hunting or when in battle...but there are young boys who may have been to young to hunt and fight but not to have sex... injured man...elder man... woman had plenty of time on their hands with their man away. I hope man stop thinking that we are the horrible beginning and think about how woman are and how that dynamic would have realistically played out throughout time....if you're guilty yourself your not going to hold others accountable...you can't. And if you aren't guilty but can put yourself in those shoes then you're going to empathize with the guilty party. Woman don't hold themselves accountable because the are all guilty in practice or in thought...just like politicians. Pay attention men.... through personal experience woman externalize almost everything and when they can everything. Only when they can't do they start to internalize. Things like guilt and blame...but it's the narcissist in her nature that makes her take the place in the story and now as you tell this story that has nothing to do with her personally she all of a sudden becomes who you are talking about and starts to resent you for the story you are telling her about her because she's all women in that moment all the way up until it doesn't fit her agenda and then it "f" that girl I don't care if that's her boyfriend or family..... absolute insanity.... your going to bank on her rationale...I think we know that's a no...and most likely she's not going to show you her feelings about the story she's going to stop talking to you or start avoiding you...tell her friends what "type" of guy you are take a guess...creep. Your not going to know her type by the end of the story...well you would have just described herself to herself...but beyond that she feels like she knows exactly what type of guy you are. Be careful men..... woman are not interested in changing...she's perfect remember that's why you love her...you on the other hand have a lot to improve and prove...you are flawed. Be careful men.

I disagree about the reason. I think it's quite simple: it's because people tend to be rather self-interested so of course women are going to say basically believe all women, because it benefits them and most people simply are not that concerned about how their actions affect other people.

Less than people think, but society would crumble if we treated every misbehavior as inevitable

Damn, so sorry to hear this. Good on you for recognizing the truth of what was going on and fairly assigning blame, in this case, more to her but also to him for making the poor choice in the end.

Blair

Makes one wonder about the degree of freewill people actually have. Might be something worth exploring in a future video.

Historically, though, I think it has always been the man's fault for ending a relationship, mainly because the woman had no say in the matter. No matter how terrible she was, she could not leave of her own volition: the man had to release her. Her only way out would probably be to cheat on him, for which the punishment could be death. Also, I've found that conservatively raised women have no problem criticizing other women. In Western cultures, there is almost universally a story of how original sin or suffering was brought into the world by women (from Pandora to Eve). Women who believe these stories think women are more apt to sin than men, as men are more like God, as God is masculine.

Ryan Stallard

I have a friend who totally destroyed her marriage. She prioritized her children and the way she felt she should parent them so far over him that not only did she neglect him and his needs but she belittled and degraded him in front of the kids and other people. Low and behold, he met another woman and cheated on her. Although I totally understand why it happened, I do fault him for cheating. I wish he would have divorced her a long time ago (they live in the Netherlands and divorce laws there aren’t great but they don’t seem as bad for the man as they do here in the states- but I could be wrong). But my friend was definitely to blame for killing the relationship, he just put the nail in the coffin so to speak. And yes, she is using the cheating card to rally all the women she knows to paint him as the asshole and refuses to hold herself accountable for her own actions. It is extremely annoying and I’ve had to distance myself from her and the entire situation because it makes me sick for her and sad for him (and the kids).

Great video. I think it's also worth exploring the flip side, that is, why men are able to criticize each other. From an ev. psych. perspective, I think men need to be emotionally resilient since men have to handle rejection when asking a woman out for a date. Also, men appreciate and respect a man who can offer honest criticism. This also takes the form of good-natured kidding between men. It's a way a man can show he'll be emotionally strong during a crisis.

DC