SIMP!

what so in order to avoid being a "simp" you've given up on women altogether? (though I assume not completely because you are on alexander's channel) sounds like you have a fear of intimacy more than anything. the truth is you're going to have to risk some loss in order to win anything at all. Avoidance is one of the worst strategies.

Kaia

My ex who was buddhist mentioned this sort of things years ago, "that thing you don't like in other people is usually some unresolved or shameful part of yourself," seems to be the case here.

So I was a "simp" most of my life. I felt like it was my only option. If a woman was going to spend time with me, it was ONLY because I was paying for it. This video would have been really helpful if I had seen it when I was 12 or 13. But of course there was no internet back then or help like this for guys like me. I finally quit chasing after the women I found attractive, and decided I would only approach women who were giving me signals or obviously giving me opportunity to engage them, and amazingly, when I changed my strategy, my torment has disappeared. Of course I haven't had a date or sex since 1988, because I really was right all along. If I'm not willing to "simp", no woman that I find attractive is willing to spend one second of her time with me. I've avoided a ton of heartache. I've saved for retirement. I've been going to the gym for 45 years so I've always been super fit and healthy, but I am no longer pouring money and time down a bottomless pit in return for those wonderful accolades; "I wish I could find a great guy like you." and "You're going to make some woman very happy some day." and "You're such a good friend, you're like a brother to me." and You're a really great guy, but you aren't a good fit for me." The truth is there isn't someone for everyone. Or that someone that we can actually attract, is really just settling for us and they don't make our life better.

Norbert

You don't know what you are talking about Ryan, this has nothing to do with the dating market. These girls have absolutely no emotional or physical connections with their "supporters" (simps !). Alex explained the situation and reasons for hatred pretty well. Also, if these girls were really exiting the dating market, nobody would be angry to lose such low quality girls.

Hugo Matiz

It's not up to me what labels mean and when you're in the minority, the classy thing is just to withdraw. You'll find my views differ with red pill orthodoxy quite a lot. I didn't realize this at the beginning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UY5BecCBZlE&t=391s

Alexander Grace

Why does redp*ll not apply to your beliefs anymore Alexander? Is this something to do with de-monetisation or you genuinely see flaws in it? If that is the case what made you change your beliefs did you see holes in the logic? I tried searching the patreon incase you made a video about the topic but could not find anything

What about a simpler explanation? Men hate men who encourage women to exit the dating market. What's worse than someone else getting the girl is no one getting the girl. Even a thief who benefits from his spoils is loved more than a destroyer who ensures no one benefits.

Ryan Stallard

Love how he uses it as a verb though xD

rumlyne

Absolutely brilliant response to this new trend. Thank you.

Margaret

2/3s of these women were sexually molested... Yes, these, women deserve compassion, but that compassion must sometimes be tempered with tough love. A horrible childhood doesn't give them a free pass to be horrible to others. As for simps, they deserve support. In my experience, however, they have to be in a lot of pain (e.g., a divorce or break up) and want to change. Otherwise they won't be able to receive the advice.

DC