Alex, very fascinating to me that you’d make this argument. I happen to generally agree that training oneself to not look or look less would be a positive thing. Have you managed to do so?
Blair
2020-01-27 05:10:10 +0000 UTC
I agree with what you’re saying. Also, for me, Alex’s argument about the negative feeling afterward is real. You get that hit of sexual pleasure when you look, but then you know u can’t actually touch and enjoy. You feel sad, even angry sometimes. Mercifully, I live in Seattle where few girls dress in a sexy way most of the year. I can’t imagine what it’d be like to be in SoCal or these places where girls constantly show themselves off and look unbelievably sexy.
Blair
2020-01-27 05:08:30 +0000 UTC
Great video thanks so much. Interestingly I had a conversation about this topic with my girlfriend after going to sauna with her and she told me about how bad it feels to her as a women to be looked at intensively by men.
I wanted to send her the video but the ad on nsfw content containing phrases like "withholding sex is abuse" and "obligation to oral sex" prevented me from doing so. Maybe just a note: as much as I like your nsfw content, having it advertised in your videos like that sometimes makes it harder to share the videos with less open audiences.
David Koerner
2020-01-26 07:44:36 +0000 UTC
Constantly feeling like you have to avert your eyes can feel just as bad as stealing glances in my book. How about looking and then simply meeting the girl's eyes when she notices, give her a friendly smile, or if you're feeling extra confident, flash a bit of a smirk like you are briefly sharing a secret together and then move on because you've got better shit to do. Somewhere between not feeling shame, but short of oogling is a place that works for me mentally.