PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Should You Seek Closure After A Breakup?

Any "closure" she provides is complete bullshit, women don't tell you the real reasons they did X Y Z, she may not even know. Think about it this way, if you had abundance, if you had lots of attractive and intelligent women lining up to date you, would you go speak to your ex and ask her why she cheated on you?

I had a conversation with an ex following an *amicable* breakup about why things went the way they did, how we felt about certain things, etc. It gave me closure. I don't regret it.

beret-doppelganger

I agree with the thrust of your point, but slightly deviate in regards to data collection. There is no data to collect, folks, as this presumes an honest exchange of perspectives, which you will NEVER get from a woman following a breakup. The only things you will learn are that 1. it's never her fault/always your fault, and 2. she is responsible for nothing because she's always reacting to YOUR failures. In fact, you can't even talk to OTHER women about it, because they close ranks and defend each other to the end. I discussed my divorce with a few female friends (she broke up with me by text after 15 years without any sort of instigating incident like cheating or dishonorable behavior), and the universal reaction was "how dare you imply that she contributed even a little tiny bit to your marital woes?" even to a "just the facts" recitation of the pertinent events. Ultimately, closure is for the weak who feel entitled to explanations and are naive enough to think they'll ever get them. Grow up, people.

William Mullen

I watched this video at just the right time for me. Thanks.

Whenever i watch your video i always try to find your Hairline that is covered by your long and messy hairs. Please Alexander, show us your Hairline and give us the much needed closure.

Hardik Gupta

They are toxic.. how could they have answers for you?

Wild_Card

Excellent !!! As you go through life you will run across people that can and will abuse you for their own benefit. What they really are, are master manipulators.They can be demanding and criticize you endlessly. Of course it never starts out this way. They will constantly test your boundaries and probe for weakness to take advantage of. There goal is to convince you that you are the problem. The only real solution is to turn your back and walk away ! No contact !