PATREON EXCLUSIVE: Sex Toys

I'm in the same boat. For some reason, my SO just isn't into toys. She has never tried them either, but still...

10'15 LMAO

It's kind of the opposite for me TBH - I'm very confident with my sex-life and also lucky with my size. So it's mostly me who wants to introduce sex toys to use on her, but they are all not so much into it :D

lmao! wow he cant help but laugh at how dumb all this is wow, yo wth? haha.

Give a problematic-to-orgasm girl the Emily Nagoski book. My back-then babe was a fantastic lover coming 3/4 of our intercourses, then something changed, and then she read that book and she started orgasming probably every time.

Igor

Go NOFAP, don't watch porn and erotica. Then make woman submit.

Igor

“Yea use that fake cock over there” Lol

Craig

Usually the easiest way to "resetting" anything is to do a cleanse/detox. Stop watching and engaging with porn (if you're not in a committed relationship maybe also sex entirely) for a while. Individuals very, but maybe try for a few months. Your brain will likely go through some form of withdraw, but in the end you may find that all those "basic" elements of sex and human intimacy are much much much more sensational and satisfying than they were while porn was a part of your life.

Ok I am going to try and post again. Does Patreon get weird if you type your comment in notes and then copy/paste it to respond? Or maybe there is a text limit? I’ll try again... I won’t say I COMPLETELY disagree with you because I do think the underlying motivations are important. That said, as a married couple who uses toys - I think they are great, but agree they shouldn’t be ALL the time. I’ll try to avoid TMI and using I/me/us words, but this video makes me a little sad because I think toys can contribute to sustaining a healthy happy sex life. Some women get immense satisfaction pleasuring their husbands and love the intimacy of it even if they don’t orgasm, but sometimes they may not feel good or simply may not physically be in the mood - so may use the flesh light or something else on their partner. Or, as couples get older, sometimes they may get super drunk and are all about a crazy wild lovemaking session but it can take forever to cum so they switch things up several times (and maybe take a break with toys) because their stamina isn’t what it once was 😆. As for toys for women... many women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation and using a toy with their partner that does that is amazing. Sure a woman can use her own hand, or her partners while in the act - but sometimes it’s awesome when those hands are engaged doing other things. Or maybe it’s in the morning and you are both feeling horny but also kinda tired and lazy. As for something like a dildo, while they can feel good they are still way different from the real thing. Plus, women can orgasm multiple times and they may have a partner that likes ensuring that is the case. Depending on how a particular interlude goes that may involve such a toy coupled with other ministrations performed by him. And while a toy may be involved it is the MAN that is giving the pleasure and HE is the focus of her attention- especially when she knows it is all a precursor to the best part.

For some reason I can’t post my comment - or if it shows up here 5 times so sorry for that 😬

My ex-wife would agree with you more, and I agree a little less. I bought my wife a vibrator once, and she didn't like it at all, she felt it was an impersonal hunk of silicone. She had trouble having an orgasm, and I felt the vibrator was a reasonable solution because as eternity is my witness there were nights when I went down on her for hours .... yes, hours and she couldn't cum. I don't think it was lack of knowledge on my part on how to please a woman. Everybody has guilt, hangups, and even control issues that interfere with pleasure. But it is interesting that she felt that I had brought a foreign and strange element to our intimate relationship, whereas I felt that my solution was pragmatic, solving the issue at hand so we could move on to other things.

Do you have any practical tips for resetting the novelty of porn and appreciate the basics again?

Do you have any practical tips for resetting the novelty of porn and appreciate the basics again?