BONUS VIDEO: Mae Reacts To 'The Real Reason Men Choose Younger Women'

Older men have a lot of positives. They know what we want in life. They have the job. They have the house/apt. So why not the woman and kids. For a lot of women this is very desirable. Plus they don't have to deal with the horndog that needs to fuck so much that he sleeps around.

In Asia this is much more common and isn't as taboo.

The fact is that American society, and many societies all around the world, are simply falling apart. It sucks, but this has happened in the past with every country that has fallen from its former glory. We are in a prolonged downward spiral of world society. It isn't just women, it's everyone. The reason that people complain about the opposite sex so much is, for whatever reason, we are simply more sensitive to how the opposite sex treats us. We just are. And the first thing to go is morality, the human code that keeps things together, at least as much as people can. We're just going to have to look for the good people. It sucks, I know, because many people seem "good", but they really aren't. They're selfish and don't care if they hurt people emotionally. They don't care if they ignore people for not being "good enough." But the world is such a huge thing that we can't stop it from falling. All we can do is look for the good and ignore the bad as much as we can.

that's a chicken and egg scenario.

You have some great wisdom here Alexander and Mae backs you up. I began life behind the 8-ball. I was a broken and dysfunctional person for many years and made all the relationship mistakes in the book plus a lot more. I also made a critical decision to get my act together in terms of my masculinity. The effect of doing that proved to be revolutionary. I ended up marrying my teenage sweetheart, but did so from a position of emotional strength, high self-esteem and wellness. I became that masculine "container" in which my wife's femininity has blossomed. Keep teaching this my friends. Men and women desperately need to understand.

I want to enter in here with a hearty agreement with Mae's point about tiktok. I have had several brief relationships with women who are too deep down the social media rabbit holes, and tiktok is probably one of the worst. If you want a high quality women, look to those whos media consumption is books lmao. But really, I find myself just barely hanging onto a shred of hope while hanging over the redpill/mgtow space, and I hate that its come to this. Thanks Mae, for your take on it all.

d3dledger

Yes, there is a huge hereditarical / Genetic component to it. But there is also a huge Nurture element in the development of your Personality. Even the cutting edge Researchers at the top don't know how big of a role does Nature or Nurture plays in the final analysis. There is this joke in the community that "its 70% Nature and 70% Nurture". Nature/Nurture is not important until the time it starts Becoming important.

Hardik Gupta

Half my age, plus 7? Barely made the cutoff with a tall blonde a few years ago.

Roger Hayden

I could suggest that the social media does to a woman, what porn does to a man. someone agrees?

Jimmy Madrigal

If you are here and you are taking you share of knowledge the same way we do, you are feminine enough from my humble opinion, thanks

Jimmy Madrigal

The social media issue scares me, sometimes one trip to the hair saloon and one may find that the girl comes back angry for no reason, can't imagine what constant exposure to social media for years does.

Jimmy Madrigal

Men shouldn't be delivering unwanted attention to any females... Talk to the ones that show signs of interest - ONLY

Once again, I completely agreed with Mae’s take. As to one of the points in the video... I am not very feminine overall. I have a lot of career ambition and do not like “girly” clothes, hairstyles, makeup, etc. That said, I smile and laugh a lot and enjoy silliness. I’m not “bubbly” necessarily but obviously happy and fun loving. I attribute most, if not all of that, to my husband. If I didn’t have him in my life I can easily see how the joy I feel (and freedom to express it) would have been stamped out years ago.

I hadn't seen this particular video before, but I can see the basic flaw in this rationale. Personality, whether you're more masculine or more feminine, is genetic. You will not be able to shape a woman's - or anyone's - femininity just be getting involved "before they've been compromised". In my opinion, this is truly flawed advice. The sad truth is, there really aren't ever very many high quality people born into this world. No matter the intentions, you cannot just manufacture "quality" in another person. Only in yourself. The reason older men pursue younger women is because they're the only ones who are nice (and even they are not all universally nice). Men want someone to be nice to them. It really is that simple.

The closest I could find is Mrs. Midwest. She dives into what it means to be a great homemaker and caretaker. Her channel has been sporadic as far as content goes because she’s been pregnant (I think she JUST had her kid, I’m not too sure). There’s some good content in there if you don’t mind Christianity, shes pretty religious. The truth is most of those channels are “beauty” channels, they focus heavily on how to look more beautiful and rarely dive into how to act and carry oneself. Just goes to show you the immense difference in the work it takes to attract someone if you are a man as opposed to being a woman.

Kyle Worden

Interesting video. I definitely agree there is something extremely refreshing to the bubbly high energy personality to me. I like the idea of meeting a younger girl and helping her grow into a stronger version of her self and etch her into my life. It did seem promising. But I think Mae is right social media plays a strong role these days early on. And I also find it quite difficult to find younger women like that unless I meet them by accident.

Ali Nassar

Does anyone know if there are YouTube channels, which are kind of Alexander Grace format, but run by women? I would love to understand and listen what women have to say about men directly.

Maybe high quality women are already psychological ill, because our society harmed them, because they are high quality and the low quality women envy them and punish them for being high quality.