PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Why women expect their ex boyfriends to stay forever heartbroken
Added 2023-10-04 23:10:40 +0000 UTC
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Hi Anosh, I have read a couple of your posts, and I approach you with the utmost compassion and understanding. I am a woman in my 50s with three grown kids, so I have been around the block with men. I am an intuitive healer, so I can explain how we attract people into our lives in order to become the best versions of ourselves. Our souls are constantly communicating with other souls to create opportunities for healing, learning and growth. Our soul knows exactly what challenges to bring into our lives to give us opportunities to expand our consciousness and become the best version of ourselves. So, a woman who keeps attracting selfish men into her life repeatedly hasn't learned her lessons from that type of man. It is like we are in a video game, and the only way to create an improved reality for ourselves is to learn the lesson at that level, so we can move up to the next level in the game. There is always another level. So if you don't like the experience of the universe/world you are having, the only way to get to the next level is to heal emotional pain inside of you through self reflection to increase your vibration. Lower vibrating emotions like disrespect, fear and shame attract those types of people into your life. Higher vibrating emotions like self love and self appreciation attract people with similar internal emotional realities. The more parts of yourself that you love, the higher you will vibrate. So when the people you attract into your life are healthy, that tells you that you are also healthy. Our internal emotional world is projected externally as feedback for us, so we can learn our lessons and move up to the next level. When I had major mental health issues, my house was a mess constantly because that was my internal emotional reality being projected externally as feedback. It sounds like you are experiencing disrespect in your life. Your soul created that environment for you to see how you don't honor and respect yourself internally. At the beginning of my healing journey 4 years ago, I attracted an affluent player, who is a chess champion and has major mental health issues. 1 and 1/2 years later, I attracted a decorated first responder who has smaller mental health issues. As I self-reflected, healed emotional pain and loved on more parts of myself, I attracted healthier men into my life. We all only know the reality we experience. So I recommend trusting those who have healed and are successful in their relationships, like Alexandar. I have searched high and low to find someone like Alexandar. He is special in every great way at relationship advice. Also, there are not that many healthy people out there. I don't feel disrespected by them, because I know their toxic behavior has EVERYTHING to do with how they view themselves poorly and has NOTHING to do with my value and self-worth. I recommend reading "The Four Agreements." One agreement is Do Not Take anything Personally. Best wishes. :)
Kerry Blaser
2023-11-03 21:28:46 +0000 UTCHi Anosh, I have read a couple of your posts, and I approach you with the utmost compassion and understanding. I am a woman in my 50s with three grown kids, so I have been around the block with men. I am an intuitive healer, so I can explain how we attract people into our lives in order to become the best versions of ourselves. Our souls are constantly communicating with other souls to create opportunities for healing, learning and growth. Our soul knows exactly what challenges to bring into our lives to give us opportunities to expand our consciousness and become the best version of ourselves. So, a woman who keeps attracting selfish men into her life repeatedly hasn't learned her lessons from that type of man. It is like we are in a video game, and the only way to create an improved reality for ourselves is to learn the lesson at that level, so we can move up to the next level in the game. There is always another level. So if you don't like the experience of the universe/world you are having, the only way to get to the next level is to heal emotional pain inside of you through self reflection to increase your vibration. Lower vibrating emotions like disrespect, fear and shame attract those types of people into your life. Higher vibrating emotions like self love and self appreciation attract people with similar internal emotional realities. The more parts of yourself that you love, the higher you will vibrate. So when the people you attract into your life are healthy, that tells you that you are also healthy. Our internal emotional world is projected externally as feedback for us, so we can learn our lessons and move up to the next level. When I had major mental health issues, my house was a mess constantly because that was my internal emotional reality being projected externally as feedback. It sounds like you are experiencing disrespect in your life. Your soul created that environment for you to see how you don't honor and respect yourself internally. At the beginning of my healing journey 4 years ago, I attracted an affluent player, who is a chess champion and has major mental health issues. 1 and 1/2 years later, I attracted a decorated first responder who has smaller mental health issues. As I self-reflected, healed emotional pain and loved on more parts of myself, I attracted healthier men into my life. We all only know the reality we experience. So I recommend trusting those who have healed and are successful in their relationships, like Alexandar. I have searched high and low to find someone like Alexandar. He is special in every great way at relationship advice. Also, there are not that many healthy people out there. I don't feel disrespected by them, because I know their toxic behavior has EVERYTHING to do with how they view themselves poorly and has NOTHING to do with my value and self-worth. I recommend reading "The Four Agreements." One agreement is Do Not Take anything Personally. Best wishes. :)
Kerry Blaser
2023-11-03 21:27:51 +0000 UTCI call bullshit on this video. Sorry Alex, but my experience has proven otherwise. Being healthy in a cesspool means absolutely nothing in terms of my success in the dating market. It has 0 relevance because all around me, the ones having the most success are oftentimes the least, not the most, healthy people out there, and this is in both men and women. I understand your logic of being healthy attracts healthy partners. No it doesn't, at least not in practice, but only in theory. In order for your suggestion to work, one has to have access to these so-called "high quality women" you speak of. There is no such thing as a high quality woman, at least not one that is single (hell, even most married women I've encountered, including my own mother, are not high quality women). I refuse to believe in this nonsense you say (although it is certainly a perspective worth considering) unless there is hard data to prove it in my own personal life. No longer gonna listen to someone else's positive experience if not an inkling of it appears in my life. Instead, all I see is entitled women who have no respect or love for men. They see me as total trash and unworthy of respect, and no one, and I mean NO ONE, not even in my own church community, sees my worth as a man because I am either invisible or treated harshly. Being treated nicely by others, especially by women, is not very common, and I am glad I am starting to move away from my desire for marriage. High quality women don't exist, same way how diamonds are oftentimes not found in heaps of feces and garbage.
Anosh Orahim
2023-10-12 18:38:38 +0000 UTCInteresting video. On the path of transforming from co-dependent to a high quality man is a place I call in between land. It felt lonely and the uncertainty was daunting when I took the first step into that zone. I have gotten past this point where I am now treating activities, places, people, attractions, and interactions as opportunities to gain data. Part of gaining data has been internalizing the knowledge provided by these videos with actual experiences. I can feel my frame evolving and becoming a part of my fibre. I can go on about how empowering this feels. However, I would rather finish by being in full agreement on the need to deal with one's own co-dependency in order to move forward and move on.
Mark Bryski
2023-10-05 13:15:15 +0000 UTC
