PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): How women unconsciously sexualize themselves for men

I agree, but isn't the same for women, who worked on themselves and became "High Quality", and did not go for hookups and shit. The "High Quality man" is their prize too. Like in a way they are both each other's prizes.

Omar

Women are not and will never be the prize, period. I can appreciate a high quality woman without considering her the prize. Thinking of a woman as a prize alleviates her of the obligation to be feminine and to develop character and maturity. It reinforces the idea that I should only value a woman for her physical beauty and she should not contribute in any other way. Generally I agree with you Alex, but on this one I have to respectfully disagree. If a woman wants to be with me, she has to dispense of the idea that she is a prize I have to earn. I am not a prize and neither is she. We're two flawed humans who are doing our best in this life, nothing more and nothing less. If she can't accept that and wants a special status, then she should go with an orbiter, something I'm not.

Anosh Orahim

"Talking about ideal women, that would..." - so motivate yourself for delusion that probably does not exist in real world. I call this prize narative bullshit.

Unfortunately it’s similar with modern men who lack masculinity & can’t fix basic things or are squeamish, lack ambition, initiative & leadership, & are just grinding away without passion or meaning. Modernity eroding both genders’ best traits. 😭

RhodiumMaiden

So agree!

RhodiumMaiden

Healthy femininity is the prize men are looking for when seeking a woman, but modern women are soooo disconnected from their femininity that they can't even articulate what their femininity offers. Feminism has demonized femininity and submission, so modern women avoid both of those responses like the plague. Their inability to respond to this question intelligently is a direct result of their inability to access their authentic self, so they are stuck on the surface/ego. That is why they can't answer or they answer in masculine qualities like ambition, independence, career, etc. When a woman has easy access to her authentic self, then she would be able to list her healthy feminine qualities to explain why they are the prize.

Kerry Blaser

Any woman who is that open with her contempt and arrogance towards men where she says women are better than men deserves her space. Also, if this is all we are seeing in our social circles then it is time for us to do the work to level up.

Mark Bryski

I suppose the issue with “women are the prize“ is that it is typically used to mean men are not the prize, and to imply women are better than men. As a man, I have no problem in thinking of myself as better than other men. Not all men. Obviously, there are guys who are stronger, funnier kinder, but in general. Comparing myself against women is in a sense pointless as I’m not in competition with them. However for women, it seems easy especially in the current cultural zeitgeist for them to say they are better than men, but it seems harder less safe for women to vocalize that they are better than other women.

Andy

I really appreciate this point of “my ideal woman who I want to be with is my prize for my hard work I do on myself” never thought about it like that, but I think at the subconscious level, you only attract what you feel worthy to have. So if I’m not attracting the type of women that I’d like; then I need to do work to become the man I need to be to attract higher standards.

Samuel Oliver

Women bring a special type of beauty into the world, no doubt about it, and this life would feel empty without that. But beauty is fleeting, and what endures comes from within. I wonder if some of these younger women believe that all men think about is a pretty face, sexy curves, cuteness, and we never go deeper, or want more. I think you are right that there is a certain conditioning happening and some women believe that being pretty is enough, and you don't have to work on yourself or aspire to be more. Dostoevsky once wrote: "Beauty will save the world." I believe that's true, but I'm certain he was thinking about more than just a pretty face and a great figure.

Jon of Arc

I appreciate how, when making a point, you apply it to both men and women. And yes, Leveling Up in relationships is the accomplishment from working on oneself.

Mark Bryski