PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Shaming OnlyFans women is good for society
Added 2023-12-17 03:40:56 +0000 UTC
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I have one more parenting skill to suggest. It is called PACE (Playfulness Acceptance Connection and Empathy). When children have been marched through a shit storm, they communicate their problems (and trauma) in most indirect and confusing ways. PACE (like CPS) helps you get to the bottom of things. By the way, spanking undermines all aspects of PACE.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-25 14:37:47 +0000 UTCKing Canute - hold back the tide. Making it should be the same age as viewing, yes, totally true. When people can be legally asked to die for their country at 18, kind of makes it unethical to stop them doing things based upon their age alone. You fight for the country, you have all the rights the country allows. I do agree though both for drinking alcohol, viewing porn and making it 25 would be far better age
Anthony White
2023-12-24 08:35:03 +0000 UTCShaming works but it must be based on deeply ingrained cultural values not merely imposed from the top down.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-24 03:44:59 +0000 UTCProblem is many people don’t know the truth so the veracity of this content doesn’t matter much. :/
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-24 03:44:03 +0000 UTC@Jonas - I’d love to know more! Fascinating.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-24 03:42:21 +0000 UTCAs more women join OF & it becomes more competitive, that will push women to do more extreme things & get more plastic surgery etc.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-24 03:35:58 +0000 UTCCanute? What does that mean? If you’re going to try to age-restrict, 25 would be even better for a number of reasons. And obviously restrict the making of such content as well as the viewing of it.
RhodiumMaiden
2023-12-24 03:28:48 +0000 UTCThank you for a voice of reason and truth!
David A. McLeod
2023-12-20 23:03:07 +0000 UTCMassive social shaming was the key behavioral instrument in the USSR. While it was definitely effective, it has created a generation of damaged, bitter people because shame never stops on one thing.
Maxim Gubin
2023-12-20 09:00:30 +0000 UTCAlso, a parent can take therapy to deal with the impact of your childhood on your parenting. It is worthwhile taking because when we are under stress, our parents' parenting shows up in our parenting.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-18 20:51:12 +0000 UTCThat being said, there will be differences in gains between "content-makers" in the usual decaying exponential shape. If you look at traditional porn, eventhough the market is saturated already, and that many girls, especially the least experienced ones, get underpaid, there still are top pornstars that manage to make loads of money...
Galdor
2023-12-18 20:41:59 +0000 UTCIndeed, but the "magic hand" brings a balance berween offer and demand. That is, it is never going to go asymptotally towards zero. Rather, the price is going to tend towards what most "content-makers" are ready to sell themselves off. A side effect of that, is that the number of girls offering the service is going to reach a plateau, because some will leave as they will judge it isn't worth it anymore. So there's just so many souls OF can crush.
Galdor
2023-12-18 20:38:45 +0000 UTCStarting with a baby, hug as much as you can. I Am Your Child foundation has an excellent pamphlet on the subject. As they become toddlers, adopt PPP (Positive Parenting Programme). Use this as the framework for discipline. As they grow out of being toddlers, branch into CPS (Collaborative Problem Solving). The book on CPS is titled The Explosive Child.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-18 20:32:03 +0000 UTCThat being said, low cost AI generared scenes is indeed definitively going to take a share of the demand and will therefore naturally drive out some girls out from the market (at least in traditional porn) + increase barrier to entry, which is probably a positive effect...
Galdor
2023-12-18 20:29:25 +0000 UTCNot sure about this: aren't OF users looking for a "connection" with a real human being? There are surely plenty of videos of the same type on x tubes for free, yet some men prefer to go spend money on OF. The difference: the "human to human connection" with the "content-maker"...
Galdor
2023-12-18 20:26:33 +0000 UTCMark, which parenting approaches or resources would you recommend?
Galdor
2023-12-18 20:20:34 +0000 UTCSorry to bring this to you Alex, but you got scammed. Half of those tiktoks are fake. At this point, it is public knowledge that only fans stage these materials to promote the site. Also, many women inflate their earnings due to shame. Either average or median income on OF is 120$ a month. Only 1% is earning any serious money. Bonkers stories like 10 000$ for a photo or earning millions per month happen only to 0,01%. Only celebrities have tens of thousands of dollars on openings. There were so many tiktoks like that debunked. Whenever some average girl or pretty but unknown, claims to make serious cash in the first month. Or have crazy stories like 5 000$ for spitting into a jar. You can assume it is fake and most probably paid by OF itself.
Cezary Skoczek
2023-12-18 11:59:11 +0000 UTCActually, the end of Only Fans is about to happen. Artifial Intelligence is starting to generate "perfect body" girls that will respond to the customer/desperate men in the way they want. What will be the effect? Only Fans will quit using "real" women and go with the AI generated women. I hope these women are wisely investing their money (doubt it) because their time in the spot light is nearly up.
Mickey Turner
2023-12-18 04:54:15 +0000 UTCOn the matter of the profits made from young ladies on OF. I suspect the most likely outcome will be realized through Adam Smith's "Magic Hand" ie. market forces. Once enough young ladies sign up for OF accounts and share their wares with love deprived men then the cost of even the kinkiest offerings will tend to zero, or at least less profits lower than working stacking shelves in the supermarket or working as a hairdresser. Just a thought. :)
Jon Wilkinson
2023-12-18 04:14:59 +0000 UTCVery passionate presentation Alexander. What is the truest truism in the Western World? "Follow the money...!" How did Jessica Alba make her initial fame and fortune? - By selling her nubile looks. The ethical business was made on the back of that real fact.
Jon Wilkinson
2023-12-18 04:10:22 +0000 UTCFather's set boundaries for the children they raise, but as unhappy women backwards rationalize and blame their man for their unhappiness, instead of looking inward, they leave a marriage without a second thought. They even encourage each other to. Our feminist society has bent the rules so far towards favoring women that they most often take custody of the children in a massively one sided fight. Those children then grow up without boundaries, become low quality individuals, emulate their mother because it's what they know. And here we are, in a low quality society, because the quality fathers have been stripped away as a guiding and stabilizing factor. As a people, we have done this to ourselves out of ignorance and perhaps apathy.
Andrew W
2023-12-18 02:28:06 +0000 UTCThanks for this Alexander, I have a daughter, so yes there is a lot at stake.
Tom WWW
2023-12-17 21:51:52 +0000 UTCAs the parent of two young daughters, 100%. Furthermore, we have this current problem because children have been let down by their parents. Just so we don't have any misunderstandings, we have this problem because children have been let down by their parents. I believe Alexander's suggestion on producing content about parenting is excellent and needed. There are many evidenced based approaches to parenting every parent should be learning. Furthermore, when a child suffers trauma, we should be all over it to protect the child's future. Accessing trauma therapy for children under the age of 12 is complicated. Especially when the abuser is a woman.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-17 20:48:09 +0000 UTCDepravity has always been rewarded. But the amount and ease of access is of the rails. I wont earn a million my entire life The simps make it happen in 48 hours Wild
Peter
2023-12-17 20:28:10 +0000 UTCAlexander in full flow. Good stuff. I would agree not mentioning the supply and demand side of things and not trying to establish what percentage of OF strippers make the big money is a bit of an omission. The sitcoms bit at the end left me a bit confused. Sounded 1990s. I don’t want to watch happy families. I don’t want to watch dysfunctional families either.
Andy
2023-12-17 17:23:43 +0000 UTCSay you have a parent who indulges their child, spoils them rotten and the kid is insufferable. Eventually, the kid grows up and is still an arrogant, awful person. Yes, one can blame the parent, and that is correct, but it's also the responsibility of the spoiled person to get their act together and be the best version of themselves. Men drive demand in this simping economy of OnlyFans, and for that, men are creating a bigger problem. Women who choose to do this work have to own it, they can't walk away, the accountability for them is that their kids and future husband get to see them perform kink for dollars. That's hardcore accountability because the internet is forever.
Jon of Arc
2023-12-17 16:14:05 +0000 UTCWomen are more likely to conform to the structures set by society. That's a fact, and I don't mean to go all Andrew Tate here, but when weak men outnumber strong men, women suffer the most because weak men are participants in society; they are not leaders, they are not role models, they are consumers. This is a weak man problem. Strong men want nothing to do with this current culture, but due to permissive trends, and feminism, a strong, good man who is filled with ideals and values is an outcast in his own society. The future is really female. How do you like it? It's a hellscape. Men have a lost an important war, and women are the major casualties. Having watched Alex's channel for a few years and many other content creators, I've come to see that women are not shy, demure, romantic creatures. They are wild and untamed, and without any constraints, they are a force for absolute chaos and disorder. They will destroy society to get a few more likes and bank a few more dollars. Women are not leaders; they don't want to lead. They also don't want men micromanaging their lives, but they do want men to take control and set boundaries; that's what men are good at. Men are like the foundation of a house; women are the walls and windows. One cannot exist without the other, or at least not for long. I feel bad for these women. This is a "weak man" problem. I don't know what the solution is, but as men, we need to do better.
Jon of Arc
2023-12-17 07:59:11 +0000 UTCPretty sure most people could withstand shame for $1.5 million/month, so simply shaming them isn't going to work and, to my mind at least, is Canute like. How about pointing out the most OnlyFans workers don't earn that level of money, and that once out there, those pictures are there forever. Point out that The average OnlyFans creator earns between $150-180 per month, which equates to around $2,000 per year. https://shorturl.at/EGXY0 Ask, "Do you want to be poor and have videos out there of you naked, performing sex acts that prevent quality people wanting to be with you? That would you would be embarrassed and shamed to have the people you love see? for $2000 in total?" Then, once you have evidenced that it is false that OF will financially help MOST people, work on the moral aspects of it as well. I do think that these videos advertising the benefits of prostitution, which is what OF is, should be taken down from TikTok, YouTube etc, and those under 21, yep 21, should not be allowed to view them and that assisting access to this kind of content to someone under 21 should be a criminal offence, making parents / legal carers, ISPs, & Social Media Platforms responsible for who accesses this. However, I do not believe that adults of 21 or over should be prevented from seeing this, as censorship should only be used in extremis. Yes, I get that making the last 2 paragraphs work together is difficult, but believe that this is only because of the values of society, not because of technological or legal reasons. Finally, my view, is that in a democratic, civil society adults should be allowed to determine what they do as consenting adults do in private, i.e. where it can not be observed by others and where it has no direct affect on others, does not cause immediate physical harm, and that shaming adults for actions taken in private, is morally wrong.
Anthony White
2023-12-17 07:07:14 +0000 UTC
