PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Entitled Woman tries to bully the police
Added 2024-01-27 01:01:35 +0000 UTC
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I watched too many scenes like this as a medic. Even when trying to help others, there are entitled people who think they know everything and you as the expert on the scene know nothing.
Countess Snowy Di Pugli & Lady Ciera
2024-05-11 22:29:34 +0000 UTCCongrats and lots of respect to the police officers in this video!
Christoph Berg
2024-03-27 17:48:52 +0000 UTCTo reply to the final minutes where you said "I would like to talk with her father", I actually wouldn't be surprised at all if we discovered that she grew fatherless, for whatever reason...
Mario Veca
2024-02-04 13:14:50 +0000 UTCAlexander—No. You don’t “feel sorry for her because she’s a victim.” There’s a famous interview where Barbara Walters interviewed Sean Connery and tried to shame him for saying that a woman should have to face the consequences of being slapped (open palm not fist). Connery clearly intended it to be as a last resort & in retaliation to her actions - when the woman hits a man first & after the man has tried to let the argument go. She said he’d get a lot of mail (as in backlash) & he calmly said “yeah, female.” Consequences. Feel the early, or feel them later. But you will feel them. No one is exempt.
Bill Washinski
2024-01-30 14:39:44 +0000 UTCOne more video...Revealed! The Only Solution To A Crazy Woman
Mark Bryski
2024-01-29 23:31:05 +0000 UTCNo problem brother. The two titles are: (1) How To Tell When A Woman Wants To Destroy You; and (2) False Accusations: Yes I Want To Scare You
Mark Bryski
2024-01-29 21:23:03 +0000 UTCnoone who's actually been through some traumatic experience behaves like this. Such a person would be highly cooperative instead. This is baby behaviour - she wasn't traumatized enough
AngMori
2024-01-29 17:48:18 +0000 UTCIf you look at Kohlbergs model for morality development you get to understand how complex it is to develop a moral code and to actually speak fair justice. Most people don't develop a moral framework, they just learn what gets them punished und what rewarded. High school graduates are all on that level and many of them remain on that level, unfortunately. Morals require abstraction and living up to a role or ideal. Without conceptualization of that, there isn't anything to self restrict for or motivate behaviour other than to prevent punishment at any cost. For them "Moral" is then what you can get away with. The girls in the video literally can't see other people and what the siituation is about. They just throw out the same stupid senteces out on repeat. "You can't touch me", that is where she is at and no thought goes further than that. It's interesting how little general understandig for the situation there is. Her model of the world (without law and other people in it) is reality tested against the real world and I would suggest this model doesn't work so well :D
Thomas Ochsenfarth
2024-01-29 12:53:31 +0000 UTCThank you, Mark - are these under "Dealing with Conflict"?
Anthony White
2024-01-29 09:16:02 +0000 UTCAlexander has two excellent videos that cover False Allegations and Bad Faith arguments. If you have yet to see them, you might want to check them out after watching this video. This video illustrates the type of person we may be dealing with when engaging a low quality woman. Regardless of whether she is dealing with trauma or a poor upbringing, you owe it to yourself to look out for your personal interest when dealing with this type of person. Alexander covers this in the two videos worth checking out. In the two videos, Alexander recommends: (1) Ruthlessly cut the cord whenever a woman in your life shows herself to be a low quality woman. (2) When someone initiates a bad faith argument, immediately stop sharing information with the person. Very insightful of Alexander given his video was created before the start of AWDTSG. (3) When you are being harassed by a women, immediately pull out your phone and record the event on camera.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-28 17:45:19 +0000 UTCPPP is also a pathway to identifying mental health issues within a child. It helped me identify PTSD in my two young daughters.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 21:50:57 +0000 UTCBy the way, I consider spanking a child to be wrong. It teaches the child to escalate. Evidence shows there are better ways to incorporate consequences. PPP (Positive Parenting Programme) has proven to be the best way to implement consequences with a child. The difference between PPP and spanking is PPP requires more concerted effort and dilligence on the parent's part. The consequences will sap the undesirable behaviour.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 21:48:32 +0000 UTCI do believe, over time, they will move in the direction of what you are suggesting. Especially when the authorities see it as a trend.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 21:43:48 +0000 UTCWithout question there is an imbalance of treatment. I see it as a societal issue and I hope our discussions in these kind of forums advance the issue. I do prefer the police service having the ability to exercise judgement over enforcing 100% compliance when carrying out their duties because I see maintaining peace and order to be the main objective.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 21:41:46 +0000 UTCShe not only needs to be in handcuffs but be given a 5 year ban. And have to retake her test to get her licence back
Anthony White
2024-01-27 21:40:41 +0000 UTC#Jon, I think the last part perfectly sums it up. Young women perceive their place in the world as above the law
Anthony White
2024-01-27 21:35:08 +0000 UTCBingo on her parents neglecting her mental health.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 21:34:31 +0000 UTCShe definitely earned the charges. In Canada, her lawyer and the crown would review her situation. The crown would be open to reducing the charges if she indeed has some mental health issues, takes responsibility for them, and takes action to improve her situation. If she is simply an entitled no goodnick, then she will face the music. Especially when it involves resisting arrest.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 21:33:19 +0000 UTC"becoming a victim by getting their victim hooked into escalation." Nice insight
Anthony White
2024-01-27 21:33:08 +0000 UTCThat's a lot of ground covered by mental health. If she has issues that bad then she as an adult and her family (father and sister) are at fault for not getting this sorted. If it really is a mental health issue, then it's not the first time it has happened.
Anthony White
2024-01-27 21:29:38 +0000 UTCYou know here's the thing. We don't know if she had mental health issues or not. We do know that she was driving whilst under the influence of alcohol and weed. We do that she is 18. In the US alcohol consumption under the age of 18 is illegal. She also was charged with 4 felony assaults of Police officers.
Anthony White
2024-01-27 21:26:49 +0000 UTCInteractions like this are fascinating to watch. The police officers have seen, in plain view, a vodka bottle, and a drug pipe in plain view, after they pulled this girl over for driving recklessly. And all they're saying over and over again is "We don't want to put you in handcuffs." ...Really? Because holy crap she needs to be in handcuffs. To be fair to her though, the police absolutely will lie about what they're legally allowed to do with regards to searching your car. They -are- the experts, but they also know that you aren't a lawyer, and that you won't go through the trouble of getting them in trouble (which is a bureaucratic nightmare to navigate anyway). I actually can understand why any normal person would be at minimum skeptical of a police officer telling you they can search your property without your consent.
Michael Warford
2024-01-27 20:26:01 +0000 UTCCORRECT! It doesn’t look like EQUAL treatment under the law. Great call Anthony…
David A. McLeod
2024-01-27 20:05:59 +0000 UTCAll my compassion goes to the police officers. They are too restricted in the use of force to put up with it. In my language, we have a word for annoyingly needlessly going easy on something, and would have fit here perfectly. Should just put a muffler on her and be over with. Take it out at the station for she should have time to cool off. And they were so boring. Screaming the same thing over and over and over like a broken record.
Cezary Skoczek
2024-01-27 17:00:02 +0000 UTCI do know, for a child with PTSD, you have to avoid using "time out" as a consequence because the "time out" will cause them to reexperience their trauma. Even "time ins" can become problematic.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 12:41:21 +0000 UTCI disagree. As much as this young woman appeared to be a brat and an entitled person, there was more going on here, and it seems wrong to pile on when she was clearly engaged in self-harm in the back of the police car. Before she was arrested, she was being combative and stupid. In custody, she was hurting herself and that's often a sign of extreme mental trauma, and patients will hurt themselves physically to avoid the mental pain and anxiety they feel. I don't know what the police could have done, and it's true she brought it on herself, but at that point it became clear to me that she has major mental health issues, and they probably became worse because of that incident.
Jon of Arc
2024-01-27 12:32:46 +0000 UTCThey may have learned how to turn the tables where they can transition from being an offender to becoming a victim by getting their victim hooked into escalation.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 12:16:46 +0000 UTCThere may be a method to her madness. She may be escalating to bait them into escalating so she becomes the victim instead of the offender. When the supervisor steps in with additional officers, they are collecting evidence and following procedure for more serious charges. She is basically digging a deeper hole for herself.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 12:11:05 +0000 UTCYou may be right
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 12:00:49 +0000 UTCSorry not buying mental health problems. She is a spoilt and entitled brat who needed a bloody good hiding many years before. Mental health is just a cover that people use to explain away their bad behaviour in cases like this.
Anthony White
2024-01-27 11:58:30 +0000 UTCExactly my approach with my two daughters. Help them learn how to self-soothe. My problem is it turns out they have PTSD. When they struggle with their PTSD, I see the same behaviours.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 10:56:21 +0000 UTCThe whole scene reminded me of crises my 3 year old had - and you just put her into her room, told her in a confident and loving manner that she is upset and needs some time for herself, and 5 minutes later she was calm and you could talk to her again. But this is normal for 3 years old, not 18 years old (and maybe this is the reason they talked to her "like a 5 year old"). Unless they never learnt to calm down themselves. Sad affair.
Chris
2024-01-27 10:47:03 +0000 UTCIt starts even earlier: how often does a woman say "let me charm my way out of this". There it starts already, the problem of not being accountable for things or circumstances. But I was baffled that there were like 10 police officers standing around this deranged woman - either there is where the savings are, or they could have been deployed to other things.
Chris
2024-01-27 10:44:19 +0000 UTCWould they take this much time and care with a male? No. So, in future, treat them the same way as a man would be treated. Straight in, physically restrained, maybe use a taser, charge her with assault etc, ge the magistrates / judge to put in away for the maximum time.
Anthony White
2024-01-27 08:50:45 +0000 UTCBruv the hysteria. 🤣it gives a sore looser vibe playing counter strike demolishing their keyboard
Peter
2024-01-27 08:08:51 +0000 UTCPolice body cam footage is revealing on how humans deduce the likely outcome of a dire situation. I've watched a lot of this stuff, and eventually had to stop because it is too depressing. The one interesting thing I noticed was when men are stopped by the police and these guys realize there is no way out, many of them throw up their hands and say, "okay, you got me." On the other hand, when women are stopped and despite the situation being completely hopeless, they struggle even harder to find a way out, sometimes using the most bizarre excuses and insults. It usually boils down to one statement, which the young lady epitomizes. "You have no right to do this to me." That simple sentence says a lot about how women perceive their place in the world today.
Jon of Arc
2024-01-27 07:53:01 +0000 UTCFrankly, I see a very young woman with a mental health problem. Probably trauma based. I believe the officers recognized it as well because they were giving her every chance possible to pull herself together. Recognizing a trauma based mental health problem in your own child can be a difficult thing for a parent to face.
Mark Bryski
2024-01-27 05:00:38 +0000 UTCWhat a spoiled brat.... Hopefully she got a good lesson.
Andrea Gambioli
2024-01-27 03:19:00 +0000 UTCIn a word... ENTITLEMENT!
Jon Wilkinson
2024-01-27 02:59:22 +0000 UTC
