PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): The toxic belief that a man should tolerate a woman at her worst
Added 2024-04-20 05:00:02 +0000 UTC
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The last 5 minutes really resonate with me and my now ex-wife. Her mother was never satisfied and always blaming her husband and kids for basically everything that wasn’t going conform her expectations. I see her basically replaying these scripts and crossing the line in “sharing her emotions” in a way that is unacceptable, blaming and crossing the line of what is acceptable. She was not able to be a team, as she never had an example from her parents and never was hugged once in her life. She refused therapy sadly and kept blaming me for everything that life brings, eventually leading to divorce.
Marc van Eijnsbergen
2024-05-31 21:01:48 +0000 UTCI have always believed that there is no reason to lay hands on or hit a woman. I have also never been in a relationship this toxic, so that may be why. Lol
Chase ✝️
2024-04-30 16:29:23 +0000 UTCI'd rather be alone than be in a toxic relationship.
Eric Andreas
2024-04-28 03:03:19 +0000 UTCA person who cannot experience shame, embarrassment, or remorse is called a psychopath.
Eric Linden
2024-04-21 16:33:17 +0000 UTC@Alexander - would be good to see how we spot these behaviours before we get in too deep and how we ca nspot they are going to happen behind closed doors
Anthony White
2024-04-21 15:52:21 +0000 UTCWe all freak out and lose control of our emotions once in a while. We don’t get physically violent or break things. We calm down, apologize if necessary, reflect, etc. There are shit tests people do, sometimes unconsciously, sometimes purposefully. I don’t think they are helpful, but they also are not what Alexander is talking about. At some point you realise these temper tantrums are a tactic, an incurable disease, poison, and are not going to stop. That is the time to end it, pack your bags, and move on. It’s no way to live.
Eric Linden
2024-04-21 14:19:20 +0000 UTCYep, I do wonder what level of immaturity is required to believe that someone doesn't deserve your love if they won't tolerate your disrespect. When a woman does it to a man, she is demanding he make himself smaller to support her claim of being a strong woman.
Mark Bryski
2024-04-21 11:46:41 +0000 UTCAh I see. A shit test is a one time/few times behaviour in order to gain information about the person. While Immaturity is an repeated, authentic expression. It becomes pretty obvious to detect a child or an adult, who just tests my character. Thanks.
Thomas Ochsenfarth
2024-04-21 08:23:45 +0000 UTCI think i would consider them different if they are repeated and how she reacts. Shit test she will be low key pleased with your not giving in. Narcissist will repeatedly and consistently demand and high key hate you standing your ground. 🤷♀️ Anyway i hope. Coz else im more not ready to handle women than i thought
Peter
2024-04-21 04:49:25 +0000 UTCIt is a confession of one's immaturity to hold the belief that others, be it friends, significant others, or family, should tolerate one at his/her worst. The only difference is society has no tolerance for a man behaving at his worst, whereas for a woman, there will always be some, if not many, who are willing to tolerate it. As such, men, have sang-froid, stand firm, enforce your boundaries, and be ready to walk away should they ever be crossed.
Hyperion
2024-04-21 02:14:48 +0000 UTC"Isn't it the job of the masculine to be her rock of order and security while she engages in chaos? Absolutely it is!" How is this in ANY way consistent with ANY wave of ANY interpretation of "Feminism"? Seems the devil lies DEEP within the nuances somewhere.
Joseph Omega
2024-04-20 22:51:44 +0000 UTCWhere is the difference between a shit test and cowardice+bratty behaviour+immaturity? Back then I thought such behaviours are shit tests to see how I handle her/things when things get difficult. But today I see it just like Alexander describes such behaviour in the video. It's pure underdevelopment to not respond properly to a reasonable request (assuming she sees value and potential in a relationship i.e. she is interested and wants to keep the man).
Thomas Ochsenfarth
2024-04-20 22:17:36 +0000 UTCAlways remember this phrase "You'll be glad to see the back of me, then." You'll find it's a good riposte to a lot of the things she says. Say it as you walk out of the door (doesn't matter where you're going)
Anthony Scott
2024-04-20 15:14:36 +0000 UTCNarcissism has many faces.
Alexander Knight
2024-04-20 11:28:50 +0000 UTCThey don't like us, in general, and don't respect our right for peace. A girl throwing tantrums would totally respect her mother or another girl because she knows there will be consequences. But not with us. They take this as a sign of weakness. In her mind there's something like: you love her = you're weak. You respect the law = you're weak. You don't hit her when you really feel like it = you're weak. This is the craziest part. She will find bad boys because they're "strong". Not like you. Not like a good person. This kills me. I don't want to be any kind of bad person. I'd rather be weak, in her books. A big part of my life is making women happier, I won't be the controlling bad boy. I decided to live alone and have female friends only, because of this basic instinct in women that can't be satiated within lawful boundaries, and/or my moral limits.
Denes Kellner
2024-04-20 08:46:47 +0000 UTCWhen people show you who they are, believe them. When they can’t take care of themselves, they are not reliable or dependable.
Mark Bryski
2024-04-20 06:55:15 +0000 UTC“How will you make it up to me” they said with a cheeky smile I know im in the right, that behaviour is not good. But allow then a bit of leeway and grace in their actions. Yea get back to the topic if its repeated. But in the moment…. Everyone messes up. No judgment up front. Unphased not some but hurt biach, un deterred, steady, strong. 💪 Edit: but not a door matt or punching bag.
Peter
2024-04-20 05:50:14 +0000 UTC
