PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women Have 'Pretty Privilege'
Added 2023-08-11 22:00:03 +0000 UTC
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Women know invisibility When they are in a group and they are the unattractive one. All eyes are on the friend. She walks next to that girl and she KNOWS invisibility The other situation is when she hits the wall. That turning point where she walks into a room and heads DONT turn. And these situations are painful.
Peter
2023-08-17 08:52:25 +0000 UTCYes absolutely. Even after doing the work there's still a big part of it that's a numbers game: for many social circle won't provide enough numbers of available high quality women to be effective. I'm guessing this applies especially to older guys or those who are more introverted.
Andy
2023-08-17 03:20:28 +0000 UTCHi Alex, I feel there are more aspects to that questions that are relevant. - From my own experience, and after doing the work (in the gym, the career, the social skills, game and getting the right haircut, outfit and elevator shoes etc…): That did not change a thing. Opportunities are needed. Plenty of opportunities. Like several prospects a week. Every week (aka as the “numbers game”). This is something that most social circles cannot facilitate. And many of us are in that miserable position because social circles are on a decline in the first place. As Todd V (youtube) explains in one of his videos: if one of the requirements for dating is not met, the whole chain fails. - And from amongst the people, who “do the work”, I believe there is a misconception. They focus on what they can influence (money, status, looks…). We are even advertised to focus only on things that we can influence. Sounds quite logical. And it is hard to argue against that. Just as you cant argue against 21 being a larger number than 20. However, another truth about dating is, that it is a numbers game. If you pursue your career and hit the gym for 10 years before starting to play the numbers game, you are in danger of loosing 10 years. I know plenty of handsome guys, with six pack abs, money, a PhD that don’t get laid. Because they are lacking opportunities. - By the way: Whenever possible, I tried to gather data on what women found attractive in me. And non of my past three GFs found my fit body attractive. They could not even name a single thing about appearance in general, that turns them on. I guess women just don’t get turned on from physical beauty as we men do. You need physical beautify to not turn them off. But beauty will not turn them on. With women you can only loose. The default state of men is arousal. And the default state of women is disgust. And things like money, status, looks are only means to manage womens disgust to enable you to play the numbers game. It might not be like that in 100% of cases but I feel this mechanism is not neglectable. Finally, there is the aspect of chance, success and failure. Some people make it, others don’t, just for no reason. And some people might be able to attract a high quality women at young age, without maxxing out. Just by chance. Talking about the matter from a winners perspective misses out on quantitative aspects. Is it realistic that everybody can “make” it when just maxxing out enough? Or what is the percentage of men who don’t make it? And how do you actually recognize when you lost the game and should rather put your focus on other aspects of life? After covering the aspect that we are responsible to maxx-out, a honest and realistic discussion of the possibility of failure would be interesting.
Sebastian
2023-08-16 18:55:16 +0000 UTC
