PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women respond to a specific type of confidence
Added 2024-07-08 23:00:02 +0000 UTC
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Did you ever do a follow up video a week later? I can't find it.
warren beane
2024-11-16 18:01:47 +0000 UTCWTF xD. I would do that too... Like if she has lip filler or fake boobs. Full analysis mode. Guys who are scared of girls are kinda ridiculous. I don't even understand how that is possible. I was too 4 years ago but now I can't comprehend anymore why. Women are an inferior species for me. I am just picking one lucky one of them to have an actual life, she can be really lucky.
Mara
2024-08-26 03:16:12 +0000 UTC@E C - I don't get the impression that many or even MOST women have ever been TRULY "desperate" for a man -- maybe for a SPECIFIC man. After all, given the sexual marketplace dynamics, all any given woman need do is (pardon my crudeness) "spread her legs". Hence "begging" in this sexual intercourse respect is not applicable. Perhaps what you meant was "begging" for attention, validation, sympathy and/or resources? Haven't you ever done those? BTW, do you remember this video from Alexander? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FpPkdw4dHzI
Joseph Omega
2024-08-13 19:24:59 +0000 UTC@E C - indeed. The truth often is just common sense. Perhaps Alexander just needed verification from the opposite sex. Being his namesake was likely just icing on the cake.
Joseph Omega
2024-08-13 17:22:49 +0000 UTC@E C - The concept of a "pick me only to someone who earns it" seems self-contradictory, female-like logic -- similar to "I have my wife's permission to wear the pants in my house". Hilarious. PS. ANYONE to the extreme is dangerous, by defintion. No real revelation here. But, would it be fair to say that you are then a MODERATE "pick-me" then? PPS. Your phrasing suggests that you HAVE been "desperate" for a man, but have pretended you were not in front of him?
Joseph Omega
2024-08-13 01:22:14 +0000 UTC@E C - Well, Christine's channel mostly gives reaction videos to other people's videos, so it is not particularly surprising that she does so here as well -- that is likely the only reason why Alexander asked her to participate in this format. Still, I'm not too sure if you may be aware, but the very first time they met (on HER channel), she vehemently disagreed with Alexander on a number of issues (to which many of HIS subscribers were disapppointed in his performance): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qx5K_ncHvns . Nonetheless, I suspect Alexander was sufficiently impressed by her independent thinking to return the favour. My guess is that it just so happened that the specific subjects dealt with on this Patreon this month were ones they WERE in agreement with. Personally, like @Questionablewizard (and for the reasons he cited), I would be pleased if she was invited back at some point in the future.
Joseph Omega
2024-08-12 01:40:22 +0000 UTC@E C - Most men don't mind being friendzoned by a woman -- we are natural pick me's as you know. They have to be explicitly TOLD that it is a bad place to be. I believe I'd asked before exactly why YOU had such an aversion to being a "pick me", even though you'd previously admitted (reluctantly?) to being one -- or did you delete that post already.
Joseph Omega
2024-08-11 04:51:56 +0000 UTCI don’t think its a female perspective. Its repeating alexes voice in other words. A fancy „yup i agree“ but maybe i missed some nuance But she has nit caused any aha moments in me
Peter
2024-07-15 10:19:33 +0000 UTCI don’t know why its ever disputed i have seen it for 20+ years and so many others i know too. Infact several girls have told menppint blank.. we want more „asshole“ Now i realise several things. Humans suck at introspection . They don’t understand the causality of their actions. Their emotions. Some mange with meadering detectivework. Moat only feel and act. A smaller uptier will feel abd act and be able to communicate what rhey were feeling. Ip from that is what happened a resulted in me being b. But not really why it came to be.. to communicate the reasonsand the causes and the causality and what that state is wanting etc. And they are arrogant and entitled about it too. Im sure i am too but i try hard to not be. Be better And if you get good at being that what so many girlies want. You are actracting girlies that want that. And i honestly worry for societies. Women mate pressure ditermines so much. Either its creating a world of simp cant do shit fembois, or right wing domineering Where are those capable considerate moral and character leaders of men. 🤷♀️
Peter
2024-07-15 08:55:14 +0000 UTCI struggled and struggle still with this. Taking up space. I remember a teacher saying to amother student (i was like 13) he is a waste of the air he breathed. Considering i already had the smarts to realise. If you fly under tje radar you wont face a flaming smash into the ground at mach 2 So hearing that really stuck. It really really stuck But im alot better, alot! Not quite pre pandemic but that was tentative and fragile Confident any push back either i folder or wigged out Im much more grounded and genuinely nice and kind . Its a characteristic i haven’t got rid of. I tried, the nice always shines through. And if Ou front with hard cocky , masking the meek fragile, tje real you…. It sets you up for mucho big falls Being rejected up front is one thing. Especially if it was an act anyway. But then getting with someone and relaxing a bit and letting your true self slip in, and be rejected afrer months because of that… It will f you up! Little says you are undesirable as that. It doesn’t help by Fronting that character you attracted the exact opposite of the character that might accept you. You really shot yourself in the foot
Peter
2024-07-15 08:43:35 +0000 UTCI used to really not feel like im allowed to do that. I see it though. The quintessential im here and taking up space is man spreading and its a fucking dick move on a tight plane or train. Fuck those guys low brain lizard brain overly dominant unaware cockroaches!!! (I just got off a flight with one, he fell asleep and bro i paid as much as you. I dont need your heat invading my 50% of the seats left and right of im.)
Peter
2024-07-15 08:32:28 +0000 UTCI today became member and this app downloaded. Cool there is this feature to be able commenting on videos just like at YouTube here. I am new to Patreon app so do not yet know how to see and / or filter out which videos already seen (like the viewed bar in Youtube).
Tord Pettersson
2024-07-12 14:30:56 +0000 UTCYes, I'm looking forward to more discussion on this topic!
Ashwin Srinivas
2024-07-11 19:31:25 +0000 UTCI think AG will get into some of what you are referring to in part 2, when he talks about practical self esteem and masculine confidence.
Eric Linden
2024-07-11 17:04:22 +0000 UTCI'd like to add that I like one point that AG made in this direction, particularly in the way he put it: "Don't be afraid to inhabit space"
Ashwin Srinivas
2024-07-11 16:30:57 +0000 UTCI think that authentic non-toxic confidence that's of use not only to you but to everyone else is characterized by the following: - Proactively pursuing your interests. - Having your interest as an important objective all the while maintaining the interest of others as an objective too - Recognizing your inherent value to the extent that you aren't always self-conscious about whether or not you are being perceived as valuable or are demonstrating high or low value. - Outcome indifference. You've already recognized your inherent value and know that it isn't attached to any outcome, particularly things you can't control. - Not being rude, obnoxious, or any of these negative behaviors. These are unnecessary by default and will repel high-quality individuals. But these do have their place, mainly in retaliation, protecting someone else, etc. But I want to reiterate that these are unnecessary by default. This is an important topic and one that everyone, regardless of gender, race, sex etc. must have a good conception of. When one person shines their light in the right way, everyone benefits and are given permission to do the same.
Ashwin Srinivas
2024-07-11 16:28:26 +0000 UTC@E C - The VAST majority of men are not REALLY dogs, just as I imagine the VAST majority of women are not REALLY b*tches. However the BRAVADO with which NORMAL members of each side now postures to protect its own ego constantly amazes. MATURITY and SPIRITUAL GROWTH lies in the extent to which one can sublimate one's reactive and emotive impulses in service of a REASONABLE and BALANCED assessment of others beyond mere stereotypes.
Joseph Omega
2024-07-11 05:19:22 +0000 UTCAs you get older, you get more fearless, confident, cocky. You also get that way if you're already in a happy fulfilling relationship.
Eric Linden
2024-07-11 00:18:22 +0000 UTC@AK Not sure you watched the whole video.
Eric Linden
2024-07-11 00:03:18 +0000 UTC@Peter - I presume you were responding to @Alexander Knight? If so, I tend to agree: Active disrepect is not "truthful", but "callous". Yet, I can also see the limits of "kindness and empathy" when carried to the excess so common among many women -- lots of smiles, hugs, kisses and tears for the sake of SIGNALLING. If there were no limits, then women would naturally HAVE to be considered the moral superiors of men -- a conclusion that Alexander often EXPLICITLY advises men against adopting.
Joseph Omega
2024-07-10 23:59:07 +0000 UTCIm sorry i think you might have slightly misunderstood the confidence part. Being a judgemental prick is not good healthy positive confidence. You could easy have defended your own boundaries and standards and opinions . Without passing judgment on to others. Are you confident or are you in the first hump of the dunning Kriger effect? I honestly… who are you to ACTUALLY know these things. Know them for a FACT! I appreciate Dr JBPs se Definition: confidence is the result of the repeated experience of competence The correlation of the dark triad traits and to ability to imitate or fake confidence or have it conflated with selfishness or arrogance, is high We should at strive to be better high quality human beings. Kinder and more empathetic. To be a positive influence. And that is no way means always saying yes or pandering. Neutrality good active disrespect , not so much.
Peter
2024-07-10 18:38:04 +0000 UTCNot me. I get the Patreon for the extra AG. I’m enjoying the month of reactions from CGS, but a month is enough.
Eric Linden
2024-07-10 09:21:39 +0000 UTCMost certainly. I think the key to being cocky is that I am either initiating or escalating when responding.
Mark Bryski
2024-07-10 09:18:21 +0000 UTC@Mark Bryski - Twerking seems just a more advanced and elaborate form of bum pinching.
Joseph Omega
2024-07-10 06:35:35 +0000 UTCThere is a great video about this topic, on "hoe_math" channel, where he visually explains it: https://youtu.be/n4aMiAesXjE?t=807 The main thing is, that girls "like" men, in two dimensions. Attraction (bad boy) - Security (good guy) But we live in a really safe, and soft life now. So the safety side is not really "needed", because nowadays women "don't need man" for safety. So the bad boys are much more desired.
Gáspár Attila
2024-07-10 00:40:02 +0000 UTCI appreciate the addition of the female narrative to these videos. It adds dynamic to the topic and makes it more believable with the female mindset.
Questionablewizard
2024-07-09 23:45:17 +0000 UTCIn my mind, I consider cocky to be an action that strongly suggests the possibility of sex without actually initiating sex. It creates sexual tension. My favourite act of cockiness in the past was to remove a woman’s bra without removing her shirt. Without question, their reaction let me know where I stood with each one of them. Pinching the bum also works for me.
Mark Bryski
2024-07-09 22:40:14 +0000 UTCI do pay attention to each doctrine because I believe each one has something to be learned. However, I do it with the mindset of take what I like and leave the rest behind because it does have to fit into my situation. My friend’s son is very explosive. She considers me to be the only person in her circle of friends she trusts when it comes to looking after him.
Mark Bryski
2024-07-09 22:34:50 +0000 UTCThe red pill wouldn't like you associating with a single mom. But the single moms they are talking about are looking for a man with no kids to help take care of her kids and support her. It sounds like this woman is different. She trusts you because you are a single dad who knows how to raise kids. She wants a parent, not a babysitter.
Eric Linden
2024-07-09 19:47:20 +0000 UTCI have been known to say "I can be truthful or I can be kind, but I can't be both". Very many women would actually TELL you up front that they PREFER to be lied to. They do it to each other all the time -- that is why they can so easily be "sisters" (or, as I've heard here elsewhere, even "soulmates"). In contrast, most men are STUBBORN, and REFUSE to be "kind" when an important but inconvenient truth is available.
Joseph Omega
2024-07-09 19:35:10 +0000 UTCI would think that if you walk away when someone twerks her butt on you, you have STANDARDS. "Mean" would be if you told her she was too f*t, and "cocky" would be if you twerked back.
Joseph Omega
2024-07-09 19:22:18 +0000 UTCThere is a difference between being confident/cocky and being mean. If you tell someone they are ugly, you’re mean. If you tell somebody you can feel their lip filler you are confident. If you walk away when someone twerks her butt on you, you are cocky. At times in my life, I have gone out of character and become super confident or cocky, but I’ve never been mean. I’ve just never before kept track of how successful it made me.
Eric Linden
2024-07-09 15:12:10 +0000 UTCI became friends with a woman about 16 months ago because her son and my daughter are best friends. We have reached the point where I consider her to be my best friend. When I need a babysitter, she is the most reliable person I trust with my daughters. At the same time, she only trusts leaving her son with either her mother or myself. We do share a lot about ourselves with each other. Whenever she teases me about something, I always respond back with a smirk and say in a playful mocking voice “biiiiitch”. It always makes her laugh and smile.
Mark Bryski
2024-07-09 13:42:03 +0000 UTCYeah, thanks Alexander! Thanks for clarification. Some thoughts on this, that circle within me: - The cocky man in the lips story, yes he lived up to his impulses but at the same time he was open and ready to be touched by the women. He wanted to feel the women's lips. So although it was his action the interaction was both ways. - The world is messi. Lot's of problems can not be handled by sticking to some sort of predescribed niceness. It doesn't work and it's boring. - Part of the reason why women find the asshole type of men attractive might be that the women feels the mans energy. So beeing nice might give al little tickle inside herself. But she also feels how the man is feeling, what kind of energy prevails within him and this starts to interaxt with her. And just beeing nice to me sounds somewhat dampened and narrow. So this will be the way she feels when interacting with a nice guy.
Michael Rumpelt
2024-07-09 13:14:50 +0000 UTCMy ex gf called me an asshole over text the other day because I told her that she would end up alone and lonely if her behavior persisted. I suppose that means it was actually a compliment. I was not trying to be mean, I was just telling her the truth based on wisdom, facts, and evidence. And no, I don't give a fuck if she likes me or not. This video helped me see that I've made progress. Cheers mates, keep it real.
Alexander Knight
2024-07-09 11:19:18 +0000 UTCThat certainly WOULD be enlightening!
Joseph Omega
2024-07-09 01:41:41 +0000 UTCI want to see CGS's response to an AG Womanese video...
Eric Linden
2024-07-09 00:13:07 +0000 UTC
