Exes and No.
Added 2015-12-19 09:52:44 +0000 UTCExes and No.
Here is my two-cents about this. The reason you can never
get back with an ex is because of our own nature. There will always be a part
of you, no matter how much you love your ex, that will ask "why did you even
leave me in the first place?"
The problem is that no matter how much you want to
rationalize this, it will never work out. This is a Spock vs. Kirk debate.
Logic versus Emotion. Where Spock will always lose.
Your logic will always tell you that there may have been a
reason why you were not ready for this relationship, why you were immature, why
you should have been better. And that is justified.
The problem is that Kirk will always win. He is the part of
you that will always ask "Why wasn't that good enough?" "what more could you
have wanted?" and more importantly "why couldn't you just have been happy with
me?"
That last one is important. Because it is completely
irrational. That that is the crux of it all. Being an ex is inherently part of
being someone's jealousy. No matter what your reason for being an ex is, you
will always translate to "I was never good enough for you". And all the time spend
with the other person is proof of that.
So, here is my advice. Exes should (in 90% of cases) remain
exes. Although Ex-Sex is a thing. Don't take them back. Let them run free.
- Hsky -
