Things I Have Noticed from a Place of Loss
Added 2023-07-10 04:52:07 +0000 UTCTW: Mentions of murder in connection to my current situation.
Thank you for listening and for all your support.
There are good people in the world and I have some of the best ones here with me.
Will most likely get all worried I have said too much and put this in a week...but in line with my observations...things MUST BE SAID!
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Thank you Jay.
Wendy Darling
2023-07-14 16:49:44 +0000 UTCI took some time off work and spent some time with family as a vacation.
Jason
2023-07-14 11:25:41 +0000 UTCYou will always have my ears and my support my dear Mistress. ❤️
Jason
2023-07-14 11:24:27 +0000 UTCYou are most welcome. I’ve had my own struggles with mental health and my family’s own moments of tragedy, so I understand what you might be dealing with. Again, I’m still a stranger, so I won’t claim to be any sort of expert on the matter.
Da Doofus
2023-07-12 17:15:15 +0000 UTC*hug* thank you Justkeruffles.
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:41:49 +0000 UTCThank you for being here with me and not trying to fix it but simply holding space for my current struggles. That is more than a simple bundle of nerves could offer. *hug*
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:41:25 +0000 UTCThank you for laughing with me yesterday playing CAH.
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:40:24 +0000 UTCYou all are and have been amazing. Thank you James.
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:39:35 +0000 UTCI'll go out and notice the stars tonight, and think. Thank you Floof.
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:39:04 +0000 UTCI think I will write a letter, think it will be healing. Thank you Shea.
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:37:56 +0000 UTCThank you for your word Poospiza. *hugs*
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:37:15 +0000 UTCThank you Shane.
Wendy Darling
2023-07-12 15:36:24 +0000 UTCYou are a very strong person Miss Wendy. take time to recognize that while I take time to see family
Shane Driscoll
2023-07-11 06:22:39 +0000 UTCPersonally I’m awful with words here but… you have my endless support, as you have provided so much for so many (Myself included). Loss is definitely something that is hard to comprehend… and like you, I think about the what-ifs and what I could have done before the loss alll the time. So many regrets… but don’t beat yourself up too much over those thoughts (easier said than done… I know). I’m glad that you’re able to share, to help yourself process. I’m so sorry that you’ve had to experience this and are going through it. I send allll the good vibes your way. *Hugs* 🫶🏻 Take all the time you need, you’ll always have support.
Poospiza
2023-07-10 20:48:34 +0000 UTCThis may sound weird but... Have you ever thought about calling the cellphone of, or writing a letter to the deceased person in question? Thanking them, telling them all the things (or something) you never got to tell them while they were alive? Or things that you think you never told them enough (things that you're regretting)??? Whether it's a letter or phone call, I've heard it can be very therapeutic. Take your time to heal. We'll still be here, waiting in Neverland, when you return. Don't start recording out of pressure/guilt for having us wait. Come back when the time is right for you.
Shae Reub
2023-07-10 20:01:44 +0000 UTCThis touched my heart deeply in a difficult time. In my times of loss I've often tried to remind myself that all of this pain is from all of the goodness and magic they brought into my life. Every happy memory and smile is a star in the night sky, and those stars never shine brighter than when there's no other lights around. Thank you for being you and for the magic you bring to this world, it ripples farther than you could ever believe. I'm so sorry you're in this moment of pain but I'm both thankful and grateful that you've shared it with us and offered us all paths towards healing.
Floof Danger
2023-07-10 14:55:07 +0000 UTCSorry to hear of these hardships. You've been a great comfort to many of us. We hope we can be the same for you in some small way. Be well.
James Tiberius Smirk
2023-07-10 13:41:10 +0000 UTCI’m nothing more than an anonymous bundle of words on the Internet, but for what it’s worth you have my condolences and empathy. Loss is never easy but what also isn’t easy is just talking sometimes. Without over explaining and going into too much detail (smart btw, obviously) you shared with us a subject on your mind and weighing on you that is affecting you. Saying things out loud can really help and from a stranger to a talented content creator I can say I am happy you are taking these steps to move through this. I apologize for the minor paragraph but I try to make sure I get my point across. You are welcome but also thank you for all that you do and for sharing this. Thank you for being the person that you are and I hope you are doing well.
Da Doofus
2023-07-10 08:00:12 +0000 UTCI have…an overwhelming amount of thoughts, and no way to put them into words at the moment. But! I do have an abundance of hugs to give 🫂 Wishing the best for you and your family.
rio_the_raptor
2023-07-10 07:21:44 +0000 UTCYou’ve done so much for me personally as silly as it sounds, Though it’s not much we can offer, I and many other folks on this page hope for the best for you, thanks for everything and I’m sorry for your loss, take care
Justkeruffles ?
2023-07-10 05:35:54 +0000 UTC
