AD-FREE PODCAST - MURDAUGH - WHAT IS NEXT? PLUS UPDATES
Added 2023-03-24 02:00:18 +0000 UTCEnjoy this podcast episode.
UPDATE:
A big apology! This is Lauren and I totally let the ball drop on posting February's book club meeting. I am SORRY. It won't happen again and I have a system in play for this month's meeting and will post it right away this month and beyond.
Book club meeting is exporting now, and I'll post it in a couple of hours, when it is finished.
John and I also recorded a special Patreon-only podcast at our table today and we will be sharing that tomorrow. So stay tuned!
Comments
Hi Lauren and Dr John I have recently joined your Patron channel. I’m listening all the way from Australia… I want to thank you for how you present every subject. I have been listening to your past podcasts and I’m hooked. I want to thank you again and keep doing your you’re doing. I thank you. Xxx
Gail Adamson
2024-12-30 07:03:10 +0000 UTCI just listened to this episode and Wow. Learning about family systems and that stress scale, really just put a lot into perspective for me, and was therapeutic. My mom was raised in a very enmeshed family, Grandpa was a narcissist. And her parents, my grandparents, helped her raise us after my dad died when I was little. My mom did a lot of therapy when I was in middle school. Really worked on breaking the enmeshment, becoming a better Mom and not perpetuating the negative things she learned. Lot of life stressors lead to that. There are a lot of things everyone has had to relearn and process ourselves especially now as young adults. My grandparents passed 2017 and 2020. Since then the bad pattern has been broken, we acknowledged a lot of stuff, and we are a much healthier family, but learning how to rebuild a family system is really hard, and it has been hard not to feel lost. But I couldn't put that into words until today. But finding the right words is a big step towards healing.
Amber Ferdig
2023-05-05 16:21:06 +0000 UTChi, I am wondering at what level the Patreon-only broadcasts become available. Sorry for the lack of capitalization. My "h" key is trying to quit on me.
Karen Rose
2023-04-30 18:39:46 +0000 UTCMine, too.
Dr. Vonda Kaye
2023-04-22 19:45:28 +0000 UTCEXCELLENT! I love these psychological deep dives. Generational trauma and dysfunctional families are a hobby of mine. Consider this: The Murdaughs were big fish in a little pond. That would make escaping from the bucket that much more difficult. Ram Dass, the spiritual teacher, once said: “If you think you are enlightened, go and spend a week with your family.” I think Alex had already had it uptohere with Paul way before the crash. NONE of the Murdaughs will never publicly accept the dynasty label. Never. However, they are fully aware of their power and privilege. Their statements are outright lies, and they know it. They are not in denial, they are disingenuous. It makes sense that someone like Paul would continue to drink. He was trying to forget. He knew he fucked up, and was unable to face it. I can't say I would behaved any differently. There is no way that the Murdaughs would have allowed Paul to be convicted. I often think that perhaps Tylee would have gotten away from her crazy family. If I told my mom I was sad, her response was "Don't be sad." Wherever you go, there you are. My father died when I was 15. He was 47. When I was in my early twenties I was misdiagnosed with cancer. My mother told me that losing a child is much worse than losing a spouse...and she adored my father. I think most people would agree. The few studies that have compared responses to different types of losses have found that the loss of a child is followed by a more intense grief than the death of a spouse or a parent. I think Randy knows that Alex is a piece of 💩 and believes he killed Maggie and Paul, but he will never say that publicly. P.S. You two are too cute!
Erica A. Zwick
2023-03-24 03:19:36 +0000 UTCThanks love ;-)
Tad Auty
2023-03-24 02:01:19 +0000 UTC
