It was some really horrible traumatising shit. Litres of blood, terrible pain for a week afterwards and total disgust at the memory of it๐คฃ I'm so glad it wasn't my husband.
The man was older and had a lot of relationships but this even shocked him๐คฃ (after that he really got lost and left me. Broke the psyche of a 28 year old boy๐คฃ)
Of course it goes very differently for everyone, but what is shown in films and stuff is far from reality most of the time and always makes me laugh a lot