I donβt agree with what Damon did because you took her choice and yes people say omg he cares that much about her but what he done was very toxic and itβs a double standard with her because you got mad that Stefan took your choice away but you done the same thing to Elena. Stefan and Damon a way older and Caroline, Bonnie , Elena , Matt and Tyler are all just in high school so they are technically still kids/teenagers. Thatβs why when people were mad at Bonnie Iβm like she is young and just loss her grandma and is not in the right state of mind to be dealing with all this stuff and people think Stefan thinks he better and heβs not better he admits his faults but he also has changed so much and showed major growth and tryβs to be better for himself while Damon tryβs to be good for Stefan and Elena but mostly for Elena but nice reaction I had to subscribe to see your reactions faster