COME BACK TO ME - Candle Spell

COME BACK TO ME

Good morning moon babes!! Happy Black History Month and the start of February!! This month is a fun one. We have my brand's 4 year Anniversary on the 15’th, Valentine's day, and lotssss of love and self love related workings coming! To kick off february I wanted to share a love and dominance spell, perfect for honoring my lineage and the kind of magic a lot of my ancestors did (i'm speaking to you my hoodoo bbys lean into the love work if you want!!) This is a “Come Back To Me” spell for reconciliation and having a loved one come back to you and have it stick.

Be weary - I would not feel like a good spiritualist if I didn’t ‘warn’ you about any kind of working like this. Not that there’s not a very rooted place and needed spot for them in our practice. When messing with others free will there is always a chance for backlash from a multitude of things. From their spirit team, your team, the spirits around you, your highest good ect. To make sure there’s not backlash or if there might be removing before hand prior to casting this would be advised.

(Set up a tether to your spell so if it needs to be reversed it easily can be down the road.) The main thing with  this come back to me spell is you want them to stay and STICK, not just come back and reconcile.

Divine with your spiritual team and lay offerings like you normally would prior to casting this spell / working this ritual.

Do this spell on a Friday after the sun has set

HERBS:

-Cinnamon

-Expresso beans ground up

-Honey

-Ginger

-Damiana

-Cats Claw

-Red rose petals

-Allure, love me, come back to me, spoil me oil

-Nutmeg

-Clove

-Catnip

-Taglock of theirs

-Recent photo of them

-Rose of Jericho water or a few of the stems of the plant itself

-Red couple candle

-White Paper

-Cinnamon

-Honey

-Red marker/pen

-Rose water or “to their knees” spiritual cologne

-Holy water

-Florida water or camphor

-a spiritual cleansing tool of your choice

-Fireproof dish

-dragons blood incense or dragons blood smoke bundle

HOW TO CAST:

Cleanse your space entirely, from back to front fully out of your front door, spending time to return to your altar to cleanse all of the tools you chose to use for your ritual. Cleanse your hands spiritually with running water and then a dash of holy water. Once your space and hands are spiritually prepared we can continue with our ritual.

Setting the ambiance for you to raise the correct amount of energy here is important, spend time at your altar with your spirits or whoever you might feel inclined to call down to aid in your working. Center your energy and set any protections that you see fit for this kind of working. For me I work a reflection protection when i'm doing bindings in case anything tries to mess with the working or the witch that casted it, reflecting that energy elsewhere. Candles, sachets, prayers, calling corners, casting circles, whatever you like for protection do that here.

Once your space is protected start drawing into your core and centering your thoughts and visualizations into your end goal, beginning to will your wants into your reality. Take the photo of them and write on both sides their full name and birthday 3 times, then place the photo in the middle of the fireproof dish. You are going to want to cover the picture with a thin layer of your honey, not enough that when the candle is placed on it later it will be sliding around, but a thin layer that coats the photo entirely. Next take your candle and prep it by baptizing it in the persons name with the holy water, rub the water all over the candle then followed up with washing the candle with the rose water.

Once your body candle is spiritually prepped spend time meditating over it pushing your intent on this person feeling incomplete without you, you being their safe place and shoulder to lean on, wanting and yearning to be with you again. Once you feel that it’s ready dress the candle with your spelled oil that you picked from the list above. Take every herb one by one and activate them, ask the spirit of each herb and element to aid in your working today, tell it what you are doing and why, what you’re willing to happen and thank the herb, dress the candle with every herb and ground coffee on the list (including any other herbs or elements you'd like to add, crystals, curious, ect.)

Once your body candle is fully dressed, place it over the picture of them,taking a small blend of the herbs and coffee above and leaving a small layer on the bottom of your fireproof dish surrounding your candle, boosting the energy of your spell. Then,  light your dragon's blood incense and wrap it around your body candle five times. If you are working with an incense, place it into an incense holder near your candle and let it burn out while you light the body candle. The dragon's blood with both boost the power of the spell while drawing them into your energy.

Once your candle is lit, spend some time with your hands around the candle pushing your energy and will into it, while doing so pray over your candle 3 times the spell below.

SPELL:

Everyday I exude passionate energy, alluring, drawing, and calling —- back to me,

I am adored by devoted and dedicated people —- (persons name), they miss every moment they aren't with me, both waking and asleep.

They gravitate towards my energy and cant help but to orbit around me,

Wanting more the closer they get, my aura is strong and self-sustaining.

They desire for every aspect of me, craving my essence in everything they do.

Their lust for me not only creates unsatiated passion and sensuality for me, they gain unfaltering faithfulness for me fully.

This comes to me easily and clear of negative forces of any kind.

May this spell not turn on me and harm no one so mote it be

Once the candle has burned down you can look over the wax and read it and divine with it to see how your spell is manifesting and how it took hold, collect some of the wax as a spiritual ‘footprint’ of this working for a lil later if need be, burry the ash and herbs from whatever is leftover from the fireproof dish. (be careful if you are burying herbs and adding any salts or other items that might damage the ecosystem.)

(I wish I could show a honey jar just for my hoodoo bbys but idk how to make that work.)

Let me know how you liked this ritual!

XOXO Anastasia