The Pleasure is [Yours] - Quinnspiration
Added 2025-03-14 18:00:53 +0000 UTC[audio Quinnspo attached]
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Admittedly, I initially βclutched my (hypocritical) feminist pearlsβ. I, too, think of the broader issues and effects that surround the topics in which you do address in this recording. Totally appreciated the explanation of your thought process. Just one teeny tiny suggestion? Maybe the slightest check-in and aftercare should be incorporated in this kind of play? Studies have shown that close to 50% of women and 40% of men experience feelings of depression after participating (this includes all parties involved). Not every Quinn listener has the privilege of hearing your explanation and listeners areat different places in their exploration. Just a suggestion when recording for a broader audience. You are good at your craft. Keep that shit up and keep exploring. Different strokes (pun intended).
Gwynne
2025-03-18 12:58:32 +0000 UTCAh sorry this is kinda long but I was inspired. TW: yapper βI love the thoughts, questions and explorations you put into your work. Thank you for doing the work alot of people should be doing especially in these contexts. π«ΆπΎ Your question actually made me think about my own degredation kink and even consider what it might mean in the context of feminism (since there is this whole somewhat kink shame-y convo out there on the interwebs of how things like degredation can only ever be an aspect of misogyny [of which I disagree with wholeheartedly]) but for me: 1) The line between it being derrogatory vs uplifting [?] is literally safety & consent with control being in the woman's hands (or whoever is taking on the submissive role). Men who are huge POS use derrogatory language as a form of control. They say these words bc it pleases them and the space gives them an excuse to say how they really feel. But the shift greatly differs if you say it bc it pleases me [and actually love women]. An oversimplification of it but true Dominance has a deep empathy for other human beings and seeks the role of being responsible for making sure someone else (their partner/sub) is very well taken care of, and certainly in the realm of pleasure. 2) Personally, I believe my degredation kink comes from my good girl complex??? [idk if this is the phrase] But growing up (and even sometimes now) I would say I am not traditionally a rule breaker. I dont challenge the status quo or seek adventure but stick to routine. Im a perfectionist who has to do and be good all the time. I feared consequences too much, but the things is I largely desire to break rules and be rebellious. Degredation and even extending into my proclivity for being a brat is my way of comfortably breaking the rules. It pushes me out of my comfort zone. And I dont have any real fear of real consequences bc in the space it's safe for me to do so. Im glad for this convo though bc I never actually gave it thought on why it pleases me, so thank you ππΎβ¨οΈ
Andy
2025-03-16 08:17:33 +0000 UTC
